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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 432635"><p>Hi keista,</p><p> I agree about the responsible parties..BUT it is in the court order. "It is ordered that ..my name and his.. are permanently enjoined from:</p><p>1)consuming alcholic beverage 12 hours prior to and during visitation with the children of the subject of this suit.</p><p>2)allowing others to consume alcoholic beverages around the children the subject of this suit.</p><p>3)taking or allowing a third party to take the children to bars or nightclubs</p><p>The reason for this is his friends drink and other stuff, he is in the bar buissnes and all they do is drink ,drink and more drink. The other mother has it just for him but i have seen the holes in the walls at his friends, seen the violence etc. I do see its extreme and am teaching them about proper intake of alcohol. My daughter has seen her father sober and drunk and knows the difference. Ya, I used to take a sip of whine as a child! But now, laws are stricter. I do not shelter them from it but I tell them why and what people drink for any reason.My father is also caregiver,we live together.I have tried to get my son evaluation and they said he needs to grow and socialize. Hes everywhere,in schoool, tball,friends houses,parks,stores,adults/kids etc.Also I allow him to make mistakes,descissions, even do stuff like painting the house fixing door knobs,etc"older kids stuff". He helps me cook,laundry and so on. Dr says he is fine even when he saw all his bite marks on his arm, and he refused to see the video of a tantrum. He is good at school so they said its all my fault and my dads. As i said before, I kept changing discipline tech trying to find something that would work( thats was not a good idea I guess). Oh well.My dad is just tired and sick, but thats no excuse! I am reading books now about explosive behavior, thanks for replying!</p><p>Confused</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 432635"] Hi keista, I agree about the responsible parties..BUT it is in the court order. "It is ordered that ..my name and his.. are permanently enjoined from: 1)consuming alcholic beverage 12 hours prior to and during visitation with the children of the subject of this suit. 2)allowing others to consume alcoholic beverages around the children the subject of this suit. 3)taking or allowing a third party to take the children to bars or nightclubs The reason for this is his friends drink and other stuff, he is in the bar buissnes and all they do is drink ,drink and more drink. The other mother has it just for him but i have seen the holes in the walls at his friends, seen the violence etc. I do see its extreme and am teaching them about proper intake of alcohol. My daughter has seen her father sober and drunk and knows the difference. Ya, I used to take a sip of whine as a child! But now, laws are stricter. I do not shelter them from it but I tell them why and what people drink for any reason.My father is also caregiver,we live together.I have tried to get my son evaluation and they said he needs to grow and socialize. Hes everywhere,in schoool, tball,friends houses,parks,stores,adults/kids etc.Also I allow him to make mistakes,descissions, even do stuff like painting the house fixing door knobs,etc"older kids stuff". He helps me cook,laundry and so on. Dr says he is fine even when he saw all his bite marks on his arm, and he refused to see the video of a tantrum. He is good at school so they said its all my fault and my dads. As i said before, I kept changing discipline tech trying to find something that would work( thats was not a good idea I guess). Oh well.My dad is just tired and sick, but thats no excuse! I am reading books now about explosive behavior, thanks for replying! Confused [/QUOTE]
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