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<blockquote data-quote="Scott_G" data-source="post: 612980" data-attributes="member: 16626"><p>I think it's even truer the older they get. When they are young, it's easier for them to find a couch to crash on and people to hang out with who are semi-normal. But as the years progress, the "normal" people get on with their lives and want less and less to do with people who they see as losers. I mean what wife of a 30 something year old man would let one of her husbands drugg addicted buddies crash on their couch indefinitely. My 31 year old son is currently dating a 20 year old girl. Now it's not that I think there is anything wrong with the age difference, it's just that in my sons case I think that there is no normal woman of a more appropriate age for him that would want anything to do with him. Those women aren't looking for a bad boy that will bring them excitement, they are looking for a stable man that can be a good husband, father, and provider. My son currently can be none of those, in fact he has absolutely nothing going for him. He's got no money, no car, no permanant job, and he's living in a basement where he doesn't even have his own room. His only posessions in life are literally the clothes on his back. So a 20 year old heroin addict (who acts more like she's 15 just like he does) is simply a perfect girlfiend for him at his state in life. Sadly though, for as broke as he is, I feel that she is kind of using him as a sugar daddy in a way. For a while when they were living together, he worked and she didn't. He was (maybe still is) paying her cell phone bill. He was always crying about being broke, then one day they show up at our house and she's showing my wife the new pair of shoes he just bought her. He probably buys the drugs for both of them as well. At least he's getting laid I guess. The relationship seems kind of typical of young female drug addicts to me. They use sex to get older men to give them money and buy them things. I bet if either of them were sober, they would want nothing to do with the other.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scott_G, post: 612980, member: 16626"] I think it's even truer the older they get. When they are young, it's easier for them to find a couch to crash on and people to hang out with who are semi-normal. But as the years progress, the "normal" people get on with their lives and want less and less to do with people who they see as losers. I mean what wife of a 30 something year old man would let one of her husbands drugg addicted buddies crash on their couch indefinitely. My 31 year old son is currently dating a 20 year old girl. Now it's not that I think there is anything wrong with the age difference, it's just that in my sons case I think that there is no normal woman of a more appropriate age for him that would want anything to do with him. Those women aren't looking for a bad boy that will bring them excitement, they are looking for a stable man that can be a good husband, father, and provider. My son currently can be none of those, in fact he has absolutely nothing going for him. He's got no money, no car, no permanant job, and he's living in a basement where he doesn't even have his own room. His only posessions in life are literally the clothes on his back. So a 20 year old heroin addict (who acts more like she's 15 just like he does) is simply a perfect girlfiend for him at his state in life. Sadly though, for as broke as he is, I feel that she is kind of using him as a sugar daddy in a way. For a while when they were living together, he worked and she didn't. He was (maybe still is) paying her cell phone bill. He was always crying about being broke, then one day they show up at our house and she's showing my wife the new pair of shoes he just bought her. He probably buys the drugs for both of them as well. At least he's getting laid I guess. The relationship seems kind of typical of young female drug addicts to me. They use sex to get older men to give them money and buy them things. I bet if either of them were sober, they would want nothing to do with the other. [/QUOTE]
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