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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 495005" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Hello and welcome. I agree with allthat has precede my post. You are doing the right thing in taking care of yourslef. Go to your Girls weekend, go to the doctor and get back on your medications, go to Alanon and above all let him fend for himself. You do not have to support (in any way) a lifestyle you do not condone. His choices are his choices. You have no control over him or them. The fault lies with him not you. He is not a child and it is his responsibility to live a good life. He chooses not to, it has nothing to do with you, your illness or your past. Sure you may have passed on the gene but <em><strong>he is refusing to accept responsibily for treating the illness </strong></em>against your encouragement to do so. Hopfull with Al-Anon and medications you will be able to detach from his "stuff" and define better boundries for your own happiness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 495005, member: 2315"] Hello and welcome. I agree with allthat has precede my post. You are doing the right thing in taking care of yourslef. Go to your Girls weekend, go to the doctor and get back on your medications, go to Alanon and above all let him fend for himself. You do not have to support (in any way) a lifestyle you do not condone. His choices are his choices. You have no control over him or them. The fault lies with him not you. He is not a child and it is his responsibility to live a good life. He chooses not to, it has nothing to do with you, your illness or your past. Sure you may have passed on the gene but [I][B]he is refusing to accept responsibily for treating the illness [/B][/I]against your encouragement to do so. Hopfull with Al-Anon and medications you will be able to detach from his "stuff" and define better boundries for your own happiness. [/QUOTE]
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