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<blockquote data-quote="nikinubs27" data-source="post: 717484" data-attributes="member: 22200"><p>He was kicked out on his butt over a year ago after he attacked me three days after coming back home from in patient care! I don't guve him anything at all!! He lives with his satan worshiping girlfriend who's parents are too blind to see that they are toxic for each other and they pay for everything for her. Life just gets easier and easier for him. Now he has the girlfriend to take care of him, he is not working because he can't hold down a job, and all the benefits of "mom" in her- she takes care of him in every way - without the authority figure in his life. He's got it made right now. When he did live with us, the "harsh" punishments we gave him of paying his own fines were in his eyes "abuse". His siblings are scared to death of him, and they haven't even asked to see him since we kicked him out. He attempted to have cps come and take them after we kicked him out, too. Told them we are abusive drug addicts. They came, I volunteered for a drug test, they investigated, and decided that he is no longer allowed bear the family until he gets treatment, and even then it needs to be supervised because he is a danger to us. So, i don't do anything at all for him. The ONLY thing i provide is health insurance for him-im on a family plan and it doesn't cost anymore to keep him on it, and I only keep him on it in hopes that he would just decide to get help. </p><p>And yes, you are right about how he makes me feels. He belittles me, and puts me down and blames me for everything! The day he left was the first time I did not have to come home from work in the morning (i work 3rds at the hospital) and worry about walking in to finding my family murdered. It's a good feeling to jot be afraid at home, but I still look over my shoulder when I am outside of the house. I don't know why he complains that I don't love him, he obviously hates me so why would he care? I am finally coming to peace with my feelings and i know that i did everything i could to try and make things better and right, he is the one with the problems and i am washing my hands of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nikinubs27, post: 717484, member: 22200"] He was kicked out on his butt over a year ago after he attacked me three days after coming back home from in patient care! I don't guve him anything at all!! He lives with his satan worshiping girlfriend who's parents are too blind to see that they are toxic for each other and they pay for everything for her. Life just gets easier and easier for him. Now he has the girlfriend to take care of him, he is not working because he can't hold down a job, and all the benefits of "mom" in her- she takes care of him in every way - without the authority figure in his life. He's got it made right now. When he did live with us, the "harsh" punishments we gave him of paying his own fines were in his eyes "abuse". His siblings are scared to death of him, and they haven't even asked to see him since we kicked him out. He attempted to have cps come and take them after we kicked him out, too. Told them we are abusive drug addicts. They came, I volunteered for a drug test, they investigated, and decided that he is no longer allowed bear the family until he gets treatment, and even then it needs to be supervised because he is a danger to us. So, i don't do anything at all for him. The ONLY thing i provide is health insurance for him-im on a family plan and it doesn't cost anymore to keep him on it, and I only keep him on it in hopes that he would just decide to get help. And yes, you are right about how he makes me feels. He belittles me, and puts me down and blames me for everything! The day he left was the first time I did not have to come home from work in the morning (i work 3rds at the hospital) and worry about walking in to finding my family murdered. It's a good feeling to jot be afraid at home, but I still look over my shoulder when I am outside of the house. I don't know why he complains that I don't love him, he obviously hates me so why would he care? I am finally coming to peace with my feelings and i know that i did everything i could to try and make things better and right, he is the one with the problems and i am washing my hands of it. [/QUOTE]
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