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<blockquote data-quote="nikinubs27" data-source="post: 717485" data-attributes="member: 22200"><p>And the lying. I should have clarified. I meant to say he will call me and tell Me he wants to kill himself, and for the most part I truly feel in my heart that he wouldn't do it. His bio-dad used to do the same stuff to me, and finally one day I opened the bottle of pills and handed it to him. He of course didn't kill himself, but I got to that point where i didn't care anymore. That's how I am starting to feel about my kid too now. Sometimes I just want to say "then do it" because I just don't think he actually wants to do it, he just wants to get attention, or avert my attention to that instead of the trouble he is in at the moment. Everytime he gets caught doing something, he goes there and says that. So one of two things would happen. I call his bluff and he then uses that to act even more like a victim saying "my mom told me to kill myself, or she doesn't care if I die" or he really isn't bluffing and will actually do it. Either way, i just don't want to take the chance... the one time I had him IVC'd for trying to kill me and then himself, he honestly had sooo many opportunities to do it, that if he truly wanted to kill himself, he would have. I think he just uses that as a scare tactic. He "acts" suicidal because all the emo kids at school are cool... suicide it the cool thing now a days with our teens, everyone is cool when they are sad and dark and depressed. So who knows if anything he says or expresses are actually how he feels, or just made up crap he says to look cool in front of his vampire wanna be girlfriend, and junkie friends, who all actually had really terrible upbringings with drug addicted parents and living in foster homes. He has had a cushy life, we made sure to support him both emotionally, physically and finanically. He's been spoiled in my opinion, and he needs to stop crying about his made up abusive horrible childhood</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nikinubs27, post: 717485, member: 22200"] And the lying. I should have clarified. I meant to say he will call me and tell Me he wants to kill himself, and for the most part I truly feel in my heart that he wouldn't do it. His bio-dad used to do the same stuff to me, and finally one day I opened the bottle of pills and handed it to him. He of course didn't kill himself, but I got to that point where i didn't care anymore. That's how I am starting to feel about my kid too now. Sometimes I just want to say "then do it" because I just don't think he actually wants to do it, he just wants to get attention, or avert my attention to that instead of the trouble he is in at the moment. Everytime he gets caught doing something, he goes there and says that. So one of two things would happen. I call his bluff and he then uses that to act even more like a victim saying "my mom told me to kill myself, or she doesn't care if I die" or he really isn't bluffing and will actually do it. Either way, i just don't want to take the chance... the one time I had him IVC'd for trying to kill me and then himself, he honestly had sooo many opportunities to do it, that if he truly wanted to kill himself, he would have. I think he just uses that as a scare tactic. He "acts" suicidal because all the emo kids at school are cool... suicide it the cool thing now a days with our teens, everyone is cool when they are sad and dark and depressed. So who knows if anything he says or expresses are actually how he feels, or just made up crap he says to look cool in front of his vampire wanna be girlfriend, and junkie friends, who all actually had really terrible upbringings with drug addicted parents and living in foster homes. He has had a cushy life, we made sure to support him both emotionally, physically and finanically. He's been spoiled in my opinion, and he needs to stop crying about his made up abusive horrible childhood [/QUOTE]
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