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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 248393" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Hey Esther........</p><p> </p><p>(i quote) <span style="color: orange">Lots of the people who write here are very annoying.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">Are you talking to me? Are you talking to <u>ME?</u> Are <u>YOU</u> talking to me? <u>ARE</u> you talking to me? Are <u>YOU</u> talking to <u>ME</u>? Are you T<u>ALKING</u> to me? Are you talking <u>TO</u> me? </span></p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">How about me? How <u>ABOUT</u> me? How about <u>ME</u>? </span></p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">Is it <u>ME</u>? Is <u>IT</u> me? <u>IS</u> it <u>ME</u>? <u>IS IT ME</u>?? </span></p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">It was me <u>WASNT</u> it? It <u>WAS ME</u>.....wasn't it? </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff"><u>ME ME ME ME ME...........</u></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff"><strong><u>Enough about me..............<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></u></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: #0000ff"><strong><u>WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME?</u></strong> </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">Cause if you were going for a personal compliment with that annoying statment? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/laugh.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":laugh:" title="laugh :laugh:" data-shortname=":laugh:" /> Ya missed it by a mile kiddo. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/peaceful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":peaceful:" title="peaceful :peaceful:" data-shortname=":peaceful:" />ROFL....</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">OF COURSE WE CAN TALK - cause I'm just soooo sure I'm not annoying - not THE annoying one....NOT THE ANNOYING - ARE YOU LISTENING TO ME? I"M BEING DOG GONE ANNOYING. lol</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">IT's a process to leave an abusive relationship whether it's a husband, a wife, a boss, a friend- or a child. Finding out what is best for our families in crisis takes time. After <strong><u>years </u></strong>of counseling and wanting (shalom) peace in my life? I have it. It didn't come easy and I had to work very hard not to go back to the abuse. IN any abusive relationship the hardest thing to do is stay gone. It's harder because at least with the abuse we have some remote idea of the cycle or what is predictable in a sense. IN a day without that abuse? IT's empty, foreign and it takes time to learn and rethink how to put GOOD things in place of bad things and how to let go of chaos for peace. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff"> After 11 years looking back at what I was living in and what I put my son through for staying? EEEeeeeeeeeew yeah - moving on - not a very comfortable place to be - knowing that everyone around me tried to give advice for the best and I chose to ignore it and did more harm than good? I had to have therapy for the GUILT after i was done with the therapy for abuse - (no kidding) </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">So with regards to Susans post. I can't and wont speak to anyone elses thoughts or advice. There are times when I have come here and learned so very much from someone or gotten some advice that I had not considered before. If I felt someone was harsh? I accepted the criticism and if I got questionable advice - I just considered all my options and moved forward from there with what I felt was best for my situation. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">In Susans case? I'm not sure where she is in that process. I'm sure by the responses there are several schools of thought. This is a soft place to land, for everyone. We're all different, have different backgrounds, so we'll offer different advice in different tones. I still think about what Fran posted a number of times - and I feel it's a good time to say it again - Take what you can & leave the rest. Doesn't mean your a pacifist OR a hot head. Just means when you say HELP what do I do? - you're not always going to get what you think you should get - my best friends are honest with me. Brutally on occasion - but nonetheless - honest. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">Somedays? That's a necessity. I'd rather speak what I felt than lie to someone. But keeping in mind - if I have nothing nice to say I can say nothing at all. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff">(slaps head) 10 cigarettes & 2 stints? Okay - I have my rock already for your grave. It's a lovely little striated piece of granite from Arizona. (or are you going to QUIT smoking so I can KEEP my rock?) </span> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p><p> </p><p>Yeah just time for a board hug......eesch - I hate when we yell. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #0000ff"> </span></p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 248393, member: 4964"] Hey Esther........ (i quote)[COLOR=blue] [/COLOR][COLOR=orange]Lots of the people who write here are very annoying.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]Are you talking to me? Are you talking to [U]ME?[/U] Are [U]YOU[/U] talking to me? [U]ARE[/U] you talking to me? Are [U]YOU[/U] talking to [U]ME[/U]? Are you T[U]ALKING[/U] to me? Are you talking [U]TO[/U] me? [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]How about me? How [U]ABOUT[/U] me? How about [U]ME[/U]? [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]Is it [U]ME[/U]? Is [U]IT[/U] me? [U]IS[/U] it [U]ME[/U]? [U]IS IT ME[/U]?? [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]It was me [U]WASNT[/U] it? It [U]WAS ME[/U].....wasn't it? [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][U]ME ME ME ME ME...........[/U][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][B][U]Enough about me..............:raspberry-tounge:[/U][/B][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][B][U]WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME?[/U][/B] [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]Cause if you were going for a personal compliment with that annoying statment? :funny: Ya missed it by a mile kiddo. :peaceful:ROFL....[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]OF COURSE WE CAN TALK - cause I'm just soooo sure I'm not annoying - not THE annoying one....NOT THE ANNOYING - ARE YOU LISTENING TO ME? I"M BEING DOG GONE ANNOYING. lol[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]IT's a process to leave an abusive relationship whether it's a husband, a wife, a boss, a friend- or a child. Finding out what is best for our families in crisis takes time. After [B][U]years [/U][/B]of counseling and wanting (shalom) peace in my life? I have it. It didn't come easy and I had to work very hard not to go back to the abuse. IN any abusive relationship the hardest thing to do is stay gone. It's harder because at least with the abuse we have some remote idea of the cycle or what is predictable in a sense. IN a day without that abuse? IT's empty, foreign and it takes time to learn and rethink how to put GOOD things in place of bad things and how to let go of chaos for peace. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff] After 11 years looking back at what I was living in and what I put my son through for staying? EEEeeeeeeeeew yeah - moving on - not a very comfortable place to be - knowing that everyone around me tried to give advice for the best and I chose to ignore it and did more harm than good? I had to have therapy for the GUILT after i was done with the therapy for abuse - (no kidding) [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]So with regards to Susans post. I can't and wont speak to anyone elses thoughts or advice. There are times when I have come here and learned so very much from someone or gotten some advice that I had not considered before. If I felt someone was harsh? I accepted the criticism and if I got questionable advice - I just considered all my options and moved forward from there with what I felt was best for my situation. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]In Susans case? I'm not sure where she is in that process. I'm sure by the responses there are several schools of thought. This is a soft place to land, for everyone. We're all different, have different backgrounds, so we'll offer different advice in different tones. I still think about what Fran posted a number of times - and I feel it's a good time to say it again - Take what you can & leave the rest. Doesn't mean your a pacifist OR a hot head. Just means when you say HELP what do I do? - you're not always going to get what you think you should get - my best friends are honest with me. Brutally on occasion - but nonetheless - honest. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff]Somedays? That's a necessity. I'd rather speak what I felt than lie to someone. But keeping in mind - if I have nothing nice to say I can say nothing at all. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff](slaps head) 10 cigarettes & 2 stints? Okay - I have my rock already for your grave. It's a lovely little striated piece of granite from Arizona. (or are you going to QUIT smoking so I can KEEP my rock?) [/COLOR] :raspberry-tounge: Yeah just time for a board hug......eesch - I hate when we yell. [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff] [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [COLOR=#0000ff][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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