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I feel such a failure. Can we please talk?
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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 248446" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>EsterfromJ: Great topic. one persons annoying is another persons just trying to get it out. And what seems very basic and easy to one person with their location, resources, and know how may be a daunting if not impossible task for another person.</p><p>Some people are triggered by bias and others are just utterly unaware of how it is for others. </p><p></p><p>Some people just do not read what is written as it is meant to be read. we all have our own voice and sometimes the written word or the writer is not in the realm of anothers understanding.</p><p></p><p>About the smoking...have you tried the gum, losenges or patch? The smoke is the worst danger, and the time spent not smokiing lets the lungs and the oxegen have the best condition...plus when the smell returns it is a reinforsement not to smoke.</p><p>It is hard, they say it is the hardest to quit of all. I hope that you can find an inner resolve that wanting to may plague you but not doing it will make you feel so strong.</p><p></p><p>Many people have very narrow ideas about how other people live. I am disabled and I have had plenty of oppertunity to feel the rancour that many feel about that. It is really really insane that some people honestly believe that they "know" about another person when they do not. A person who is not disablied imagines that a person who is disabled will "find a way" to live as if they are normal, or functionally</p><p>adebt 'like' normal. How often I am talked to as if I am an imbicile when I am saying what is true and help I do need, not want. I did not want to be disabled. I do not like being disabled. I do not feel "lucky" to have my limitations of activities, income, work, disireablilty,or the pain,frustrations, and unremitting poverty. What I am glade for, though, is the world veiw that changed for me when I was no longer able to work and discovered that there are so many people who are neglected,shunned,made into mockery and what the well do not know and would do well to try try try to understand is that people are people no matter what condition they are in. </p><p>Children and adults with conduct disorders are with us and deserve the meathods and means to live their best lives, too. </p><p>and however annoying or down right abrasive some people will adress their issues the only only way to learn how to communicate in a manner that will help is to have examples. This forum allows that to happen amoung strangers. How wonderful is that? </p><p>WE have our child(ren) and our lives where maybe we feel isolated with a set of problems no one we know is having trouble with and here we have loads of support and kind (sometimes unkind) ideas to move us along.</p><p>I know when push came to shove in my world I found what I needed to put on my big girl pants and go all bonzi on my boy. I got alot of ideas and alot of permission from this place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 248446, member: 6271"] EsterfromJ: Great topic. one persons annoying is another persons just trying to get it out. And what seems very basic and easy to one person with their location, resources, and know how may be a daunting if not impossible task for another person. Some people are triggered by bias and others are just utterly unaware of how it is for others. Some people just do not read what is written as it is meant to be read. we all have our own voice and sometimes the written word or the writer is not in the realm of anothers understanding. About the smoking...have you tried the gum, losenges or patch? The smoke is the worst danger, and the time spent not smokiing lets the lungs and the oxegen have the best condition...plus when the smell returns it is a reinforsement not to smoke. It is hard, they say it is the hardest to quit of all. I hope that you can find an inner resolve that wanting to may plague you but not doing it will make you feel so strong. Many people have very narrow ideas about how other people live. I am disabled and I have had plenty of oppertunity to feel the rancour that many feel about that. It is really really insane that some people honestly believe that they "know" about another person when they do not. A person who is not disablied imagines that a person who is disabled will "find a way" to live as if they are normal, or functionally adebt 'like' normal. How often I am talked to as if I am an imbicile when I am saying what is true and help I do need, not want. I did not want to be disabled. I do not like being disabled. I do not feel "lucky" to have my limitations of activities, income, work, disireablilty,or the pain,frustrations, and unremitting poverty. What I am glade for, though, is the world veiw that changed for me when I was no longer able to work and discovered that there are so many people who are neglected,shunned,made into mockery and what the well do not know and would do well to try try try to understand is that people are people no matter what condition they are in. Children and adults with conduct disorders are with us and deserve the meathods and means to live their best lives, too. and however annoying or down right abrasive some people will adress their issues the only only way to learn how to communicate in a manner that will help is to have examples. This forum allows that to happen amoung strangers. How wonderful is that? WE have our child(ren) and our lives where maybe we feel isolated with a set of problems no one we know is having trouble with and here we have loads of support and kind (sometimes unkind) ideas to move us along. I know when push came to shove in my world I found what I needed to put on my big girl pants and go all bonzi on my boy. I got alot of ideas and alot of permission from this place. [/QUOTE]
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