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I finally kicked my unstable 20 yr old son out of my house
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 619271" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Be kind to yourself today, WF. This is a hard hard road you are walking and change is tough. You took a big first step today and I'm glad you are feeling the rosy feeling of relief to start. The stages of grief are many, and you will experience them again. This is the stuff of love. We love, we suffer, we grow, we set boundaries, we suffer. </p><p></p><p>You are setting new boundaries, and your difficult child is bound to not like them and come back around again. We have taught them well and they don't give up easily.</p><p></p><p>Start the practice of focusing on yourself and detaching through reading, writing, praying, meditation, 12 step work (if you choose). There are lots of helps out there, including reading books posted by others on this site. They will help feed your mind and heart in healthy ways and soon, this will get easier and easier, even as you are doing a very hard and different thing.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there! we are here for you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 619271, member: 17542"] Be kind to yourself today, WF. This is a hard hard road you are walking and change is tough. You took a big first step today and I'm glad you are feeling the rosy feeling of relief to start. The stages of grief are many, and you will experience them again. This is the stuff of love. We love, we suffer, we grow, we set boundaries, we suffer. You are setting new boundaries, and your difficult child is bound to not like them and come back around again. We have taught them well and they don't give up easily. Start the practice of focusing on yourself and detaching through reading, writing, praying, meditation, 12 step work (if you choose). There are lots of helps out there, including reading books posted by others on this site. They will help feed your mind and heart in healthy ways and soon, this will get easier and easier, even as you are doing a very hard and different thing. Hang in there! we are here for you! [/QUOTE]
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