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I give up. It hurts too much to hope.
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662754" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Copa, you are doing everything a normal, loving mom would do. You are following and trusting and believing in and for, your son; now that you understand his situation differently, you are doing everything in your power to see that it is possible for him to make tomorrow's appointment.</p><p></p><p>Please don't beat yourself up Copa, for things you truly cannot control. It is never wrong to do what we can, as long as we do not repeatedly and consistently enable unhealthy behaviors or beliefs. This was not enabling. This was making it possible for your son to receive the life-saving treatment he requires. Regarding those beautiful feelings of elation over changes in your child's situation, Copa: It is never, ever, wrong to celebrate any smallest success with our whole hearts. </p><p></p><p>There is too much pain for us already.</p><p></p><p>We do our best, Copa. Our very best that we know how to do for our kids. Sometimes, the only comfort we can take is that we did do our best, given what we knew when we made our conscious and deliberate and deliberated choice.</p><p></p><p>Now, you must try very hard to do your best for Copa. No one gets to beat her up or mistreat her in any way mentally, physically, or emotionally ever again. </p><p></p><p>Someone is setting you up for hurting Copa, but it isn't you.</p><p></p><p>Whose voice do you hear?</p><p></p><p>Tell them Cedar, speaking in the powerful name of The Foo Chronicles, said to shut up.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662754, member: 17461"] Copa, you are doing everything a normal, loving mom would do. You are following and trusting and believing in and for, your son; now that you understand his situation differently, you are doing everything in your power to see that it is possible for him to make tomorrow's appointment. Please don't beat yourself up Copa, for things you truly cannot control. It is never wrong to do what we can, as long as we do not repeatedly and consistently enable unhealthy behaviors or beliefs. This was not enabling. This was making it possible for your son to receive the life-saving treatment he requires. Regarding those beautiful feelings of elation over changes in your child's situation, Copa: It is never, ever, wrong to celebrate any smallest success with our whole hearts. There is too much pain for us already. We do our best, Copa. Our very best that we know how to do for our kids. Sometimes, the only comfort we can take is that we did do our best, given what we knew when we made our conscious and deliberate and deliberated choice. Now, you must try very hard to do your best for Copa. No one gets to beat her up or mistreat her in any way mentally, physically, or emotionally ever again. Someone is setting you up for hurting Copa, but it isn't you. Whose voice do you hear? Tell them Cedar, speaking in the powerful name of The Foo Chronicles, said to shut up. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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