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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 28162" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>You know, I try, but for some reason, I always walk off being the bad guy. </p><p></p><p>NOT the foster mother difficult child 2 is with now, but the PREVIOUS, the one he was removed from TWICE because of "abuse", is again contacting him through the internet.</p><p></p><p>Now, the two older children that she has, they want to communicate with difficult child 2 also. I'm actually ok with all of them saying hi and being friends, as long as it's kept appropriate.</p><p></p><p>I don't need this FM trying to do whatever it is she's trying to do (I can't figure it out) by asking difficult child 2 if he wants to come back to her home, reliving the past, speaking of sleepovers and all that stuff. It's just inappropriate. </p><p></p><p>I could have went to my attorney. I could have went to CPS. I could have made a big stink. Instead, I chose to message her myself, explaining that I do read difficult child 2's mail, so to please keep the friendship appropriate, and not to insinuate that he is coming back to her, or even think there may be a chance, because there isn't one. Additionally, she has photos of him on her MySpace page depicting him as her son. </p><p></p><p>She went off. Called me mean, told me she sees now why difficult child 2 said I'm a crazy person and he must have been telling truth about me all along. Geez.</p><p></p><p>If I would have went to the appropriate people with this, I have a feeling she would have been in some trouble. I asked her nicely, keeping it between the two of us, and got punched. She didn't understand.</p><p></p><p>More drama to add to the story that isn't needed. It'll go back to difficult child 2 through her and then it'll open another can of worms that I don't want. </p><p></p><p>I try. I really do. Just gets me every time.</p><p></p><p>Janna</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 28162, member: 2737"] You know, I try, but for some reason, I always walk off being the bad guy. NOT the foster mother difficult child 2 is with now, but the PREVIOUS, the one he was removed from TWICE because of "abuse", is again contacting him through the internet. Now, the two older children that she has, they want to communicate with difficult child 2 also. I'm actually ok with all of them saying hi and being friends, as long as it's kept appropriate. I don't need this FM trying to do whatever it is she's trying to do (I can't figure it out) by asking difficult child 2 if he wants to come back to her home, reliving the past, speaking of sleepovers and all that stuff. It's just inappropriate. I could have went to my attorney. I could have went to CPS. I could have made a big stink. Instead, I chose to message her myself, explaining that I do read difficult child 2's mail, so to please keep the friendship appropriate, and not to insinuate that he is coming back to her, or even think there may be a chance, because there isn't one. Additionally, she has photos of him on her MySpace page depicting him as her son. She went off. Called me mean, told me she sees now why difficult child 2 said I'm a crazy person and he must have been telling truth about me all along. Geez. If I would have went to the appropriate people with this, I have a feeling she would have been in some trouble. I asked her nicely, keeping it between the two of us, and got punched. She didn't understand. More drama to add to the story that isn't needed. It'll go back to difficult child 2 through her and then it'll open another can of worms that I don't want. I try. I really do. Just gets me every time. Janna [/QUOTE]
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