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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 135134"><p>Yeah, if someone asked me that I'd probably tell them where they could go. I was just trying to get her to think about what she's doing before she's doing it. </p><p></p><p>I do offer to help, I do offer suggestions, I do tell her to stop and start again when she's calmed down. But, what I really want to happen is for her to start regulating that herself. She's 13, not 3. I don't think it's unreasonable to start expecting her to work on monitoring her own behavior.</p><p></p><p>I don't want her to just stop the behavior when it's happening. I want her to be able to stop it before it starts by being proactive and instead of just reacting asking herself what can I do now to fix this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 135134"] Yeah, if someone asked me that I'd probably tell them where they could go. I was just trying to get her to think about what she's doing before she's doing it. I do offer to help, I do offer suggestions, I do tell her to stop and start again when she's calmed down. But, what I really want to happen is for her to start regulating that herself. She's 13, not 3. I don't think it's unreasonable to start expecting her to work on monitoring her own behavior. I don't want her to just stop the behavior when it's happening. I want her to be able to stop it before it starts by being proactive and instead of just reacting asking herself what can I do now to fix this. [/QUOTE]
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