I believe that is true also. But if somebody is toxic to us, even family, we are to let them go. There is helping and enabling. I felt that keeping my drug abusing daughter at home would hold her back. She quit as soon as I made the tough decision to do so. I help people when I feel I can. And I let go when my help is not helping...then I am doing it for me, not for them. Loving ourselves is very important to our energy field...every bit as important as loving others. This is what I have learned in the same teachings.
Sometimes our help doesnt help. But it is your decision. Lots of luck. I wish you both well.
