I understand.
I have a slightly different perspective and don't wish to debate "what I am doing or not doing or why."
This forum is the first forum I have found where there is space for non "groupthink." There are times when I must detach and I know where to go for that train of thought and it is helpful in those times. This is not one of those times. I am not going to go into details about his mental health or my personal spiritual beliefs about "our paths." No one can really know what another person "should" do.
Like I said, next week or tomorrow, I may be doing something completely different! It's a journey. It's not just "he's sick and I'm sick for loving him so I have to do x, y, and z because lots of people say that is what I 'should' do." It is me deciding what is right for me in each moment.
Thanks
