Each person is different. I loved all my kids enough to walk through fire for them. But my daughter was abusing drugs and I had two young children who were afraid of her when she was high and hubby and I did not want illegal stuff going on in our home. Plus Daughter started drugs at 12 and was getting worse and refused treatment. We had no extra money in the bank and we knew she would get a job. Even using she had worked from age sixteen. She was not helpless and i personally like to show my kids I have faith in them, even if, like my son, they have autism.
My situation and thinking processes are different from you and yours...not better, just different. We are very thankful that she did what needed doing fast...then quit the stuff.
That doesnt mean YOU have to do it.
