seek, both SWOT and RN are very kind people. I'm sorry you felt judged by their comments, but I assure you that neither of them is a judgmental person. There's another saying on the board that goes, "take what you can use and ignore the rest." Each of us is in a pickle barrel or we wouldn't be here. Sometimes people say things that unintentionally hurt the poster, like you.
All of us want success for your grandson.
