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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 655570" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>I do understand how you feel. I mean for me I was told over and over, my family was my whole life, blood is thicker then water, family comes first no matter. I wanted and needed that, believed that. I saw some huge families , wonderful loving and close families generation after generation really supporting each other.Same as small families being close, I thought thats what I had too, then I grew up. Still struggle with admitting it, still struggle with how thats not fair and what and who will I have when they have passed, but in some ways, its actually as if some as passed now. The blame, the constant their way and they are right, so as they say and that makes the family what is it. Well, no, it doesnt. Im learning. I admit Im not perfect, I admit I say too much, I admit I have done wrong, but, I do learn from my mistakes, as they think they make none. The social media is why I dont like it, I think it can actually make things worse for families, friends, employees, etc. I will never understand why people are the way they are, for money, fame, control, its sad. How much are we or others suppose to put up with, its hard and sad for the kiddos for sure. Im so sorry your still going through this, as the rest of you having some family issues, but your not alone. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 655570, member: 18100"] I do understand how you feel. I mean for me I was told over and over, my family was my whole life, blood is thicker then water, family comes first no matter. I wanted and needed that, believed that. I saw some huge families , wonderful loving and close families generation after generation really supporting each other.Same as small families being close, I thought thats what I had too, then I grew up. Still struggle with admitting it, still struggle with how thats not fair and what and who will I have when they have passed, but in some ways, its actually as if some as passed now. The blame, the constant their way and they are right, so as they say and that makes the family what is it. Well, no, it doesnt. Im learning. I admit Im not perfect, I admit I say too much, I admit I have done wrong, but, I do learn from my mistakes, as they think they make none. The social media is why I dont like it, I think it can actually make things worse for families, friends, employees, etc. I will never understand why people are the way they are, for money, fame, control, its sad. How much are we or others suppose to put up with, its hard and sad for the kiddos for sure. Im so sorry your still going through this, as the rest of you having some family issues, but your not alone. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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