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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 289104" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks, Susie! Oh- yeah- if they ever did send difficult child to one of them to live, you bet I'd be telling him right away to wacth for it because I would consider it an emergency!</p><p></p><p></p><p>DDD: I'm confused- I interpreted your last post to refer to abuse suffered by your difficult child- is that correct? I was not aware of that.</p><p></p><p>Or, you might have been referring to my previous abuse that I have possted about. There were several traumas in my childhood- and not the type that shouldn't be talked about. As this was being discussed in court, it became apparent, even to me, that my mom was the common denominator in almost all of them. Let's just say it went like this- I was telling the GAL (from the witness stand) that I was not going to let my son around my bro again and NEVER wanted anything to do with my bro again (unless he had MAJOR therapy which I didn't think would ever happen- and by that point, they were in agreement)- and the judge juumped in and said "ok- what about your mother". And I told her I kept visits supervised and minimal and would continue to do so, the judge nodded in agreement, then typed something in her computer.</p><p></p><p>It has to be dealt with because difficult child doesn't understand why we can't have a "normal" family and my mom is continuing to try to access my son and communicate with him without it being monitored and then, just on Sun, she called verbally attacking me. And when she has the audacity to jump down my throat about carp like getting high as an older teen and having friends she didn't like- after she dealt with all of it by using therapy as a threat if I "didn't start acting normal" after the situation with her bro, it flies all over me. She went off about this on Sun and it's 30 years later.</p><p></p><p>Maybe the question about my mom and bro is just another piece of the puzzle that I never thought about and need to accept as a big possibility and let that piece fall into place. I had not gone through that issue before in my mind. It's painful, even with the knowledge I already have about this family, and even though I am not shocked.</p><p></p><p>What do you expect from a woman who checks her bro out of a psychiatric hospital, never gets the therapy she agrees with the psychiatric hospital to get for her family, lets her known child-molesting mid 30's bro move in with her and her teen daughter, then blames the daughter when he rapes her and has an incestuous relationship for 6 mos? I had to explain to the judge and GAL WHY I chose not to have charges filed against my mom once I was in therapy.</p><p></p><p>And all tdocs have said that if the family had gotten past this and really understood what went wrong, they wouldn't still be professing that the problem in the family is me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 289104, member: 3699"] Thanks, Susie! Oh- yeah- if they ever did send difficult child to one of them to live, you bet I'd be telling him right away to wacth for it because I would consider it an emergency! DDD: I'm confused- I interpreted your last post to refer to abuse suffered by your difficult child- is that correct? I was not aware of that. Or, you might have been referring to my previous abuse that I have possted about. There were several traumas in my childhood- and not the type that shouldn't be talked about. As this was being discussed in court, it became apparent, even to me, that my mom was the common denominator in almost all of them. Let's just say it went like this- I was telling the GAL (from the witness stand) that I was not going to let my son around my bro again and NEVER wanted anything to do with my bro again (unless he had MAJOR therapy which I didn't think would ever happen- and by that point, they were in agreement)- and the judge juumped in and said "ok- what about your mother". And I told her I kept visits supervised and minimal and would continue to do so, the judge nodded in agreement, then typed something in her computer. It has to be dealt with because difficult child doesn't understand why we can't have a "normal" family and my mom is continuing to try to access my son and communicate with him without it being monitored and then, just on Sun, she called verbally attacking me. And when she has the audacity to jump down my throat about carp like getting high as an older teen and having friends she didn't like- after she dealt with all of it by using therapy as a threat if I "didn't start acting normal" after the situation with her bro, it flies all over me. She went off about this on Sun and it's 30 years later. Maybe the question about my mom and bro is just another piece of the puzzle that I never thought about and need to accept as a big possibility and let that piece fall into place. I had not gone through that issue before in my mind. It's painful, even with the knowledge I already have about this family, and even though I am not shocked. What do you expect from a woman who checks her bro out of a psychiatric hospital, never gets the therapy she agrees with the psychiatric hospital to get for her family, lets her known child-molesting mid 30's bro move in with her and her teen daughter, then blames the daughter when he rapes her and has an incestuous relationship for 6 mos? I had to explain to the judge and GAL WHY I chose not to have charges filed against my mom once I was in therapy. And all tdocs have said that if the family had gotten past this and really understood what went wrong, they wouldn't still be professing that the problem in the family is me. [/QUOTE]
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