Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
I may be getting too far out
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 289135" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>That and fear. It is amazing the manipulation that molesters can use to get the kid where they want them. Let's just say, I can understand a lot more after seeing my bro starting to use those tactics with my son. I understand the boy that was caught with the abductor/molester, last year I think, where many think the teen boy must have wanted that life because he did not run and tell someone. The touching is only a small percent of the actual abuse and harm done. And sometimes the sexual part never comes into the play- just the control part does. That's partly the way my mother was to me and it sounds like yours was that way to you, MWM. At least I had a chance to tell the people in court a lot of this stuff- although it sent me backwards in some ways and was very painful and humiliating for me..</p><p></p><p>Anyway, thank you for your kind words and understanding, MWM! I appreciate it very much. Like I mentioned before, the tdocs that I've discussed this with have ALL told me that my mom must have been abused as a child herself in order to become the way she is. And, given that her bro was a molester/down-right rapist, it's obviously was a family problem. Whether or not her bro molested/raped her as a child or someone else did this to both of them, I will probably never know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 289135, member: 3699"] That and fear. It is amazing the manipulation that molesters can use to get the kid where they want them. Let's just say, I can understand a lot more after seeing my bro starting to use those tactics with my son. I understand the boy that was caught with the abductor/molester, last year I think, where many think the teen boy must have wanted that life because he did not run and tell someone. The touching is only a small percent of the actual abuse and harm done. And sometimes the sexual part never comes into the play- just the control part does. That's partly the way my mother was to me and it sounds like yours was that way to you, MWM. At least I had a chance to tell the people in court a lot of this stuff- although it sent me backwards in some ways and was very painful and humiliating for me.. Anyway, thank you for your kind words and understanding, MWM! I appreciate it very much. Like I mentioned before, the tdocs that I've discussed this with have ALL told me that my mom must have been abused as a child herself in order to become the way she is. And, given that her bro was a molester/down-right rapist, it's obviously was a family problem. Whether or not her bro molested/raped her as a child or someone else did this to both of them, I will probably never know. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
I may be getting too far out
Top