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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 289149" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Like Janet I suffered years upon years of sexual abuse by mult people. Family mostly.</p><p> </p><p>My kids didn't know until they were grown. Um well, Travis still doesn't know. And like Janet, they got a brief overview with no details. This was as much to protect my grandkids, as well as to explain their mother a bit more to them once they were old enough to be able to understand it somewhat.</p><p> </p><p>My mother used to watch my kids when I was in hospital. She was given strict orders that no other family member was to watch them except for my aunt Janet. She dropped the ball one time and let my sister watch them. easy child was molested by my then 12 yr old nephew. She was 2. What she told me was confirmed by physical exam.</p><p> </p><p>Ok. No therapist would do therapy. It was a one time deal. They told me to wait and see how much it effected her before jumping into therapy afraid the therapy itself would do more harm than good. Once the investigation was over it was never discussed again. (until she was grown) She had no lasted effects and still doesn't. She doesn't even remember it.</p><p> </p><p>As far as bro is concerned........he has to help himself. But with even just the hint it might be so.........my kid wouldn't see either grandma or uncle without constant adult supervision. Ever.</p><p> </p><p>But I see no reason for difficult child to know until he is grown, unless he too shows signs of possible abuse. (I don't know if he ever spent time alone with either of them)</p><p> </p><p>There is good reason why I live so far from my family. This is only one of many.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 289149, member: 84"] Like Janet I suffered years upon years of sexual abuse by mult people. Family mostly. My kids didn't know until they were grown. Um well, Travis still doesn't know. And like Janet, they got a brief overview with no details. This was as much to protect my grandkids, as well as to explain their mother a bit more to them once they were old enough to be able to understand it somewhat. My mother used to watch my kids when I was in hospital. She was given strict orders that no other family member was to watch them except for my aunt Janet. She dropped the ball one time and let my sister watch them. easy child was molested by my then 12 yr old nephew. She was 2. What she told me was confirmed by physical exam. Ok. No therapist would do therapy. It was a one time deal. They told me to wait and see how much it effected her before jumping into therapy afraid the therapy itself would do more harm than good. Once the investigation was over it was never discussed again. (until she was grown) She had no lasted effects and still doesn't. She doesn't even remember it. As far as bro is concerned........he has to help himself. But with even just the hint it might be so.........my kid wouldn't see either grandma or uncle without constant adult supervision. Ever. But I see no reason for difficult child to know until he is grown, unless he too shows signs of possible abuse. (I don't know if he ever spent time alone with either of them) There is good reason why I live so far from my family. This is only one of many. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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