Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
I may be getting too far out
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 289454" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well I probably did things all completely wrong but when I packed up my mom to bring her to my house, everything she had came to me. Now she had very little of my things anymore. Not even pictures of me. I was that unimportant to her. I think she had two pictures of me as a baby and small child. What I did get is pictures of my grandmother and great grandparents which do mean something to me but Im sure she never thought they would. I also have all her furniture and her antiques. Some of it is quite valuable...at least it has a whole lot of sentimental value to me, more than she would have ever known, and more than I would have ever thought. I will never part with most things. I may give the boys a piece here and there. My mom was really into authentic Blue Willow. I have no idea why I want her furniture but it reminds me of my family and it is a part of me. It is something I will probably pass down to the grandkids. </p><p></p><p>But...I bypassed the executor. By the time my mom really didnt have any assets left in her possession. I considered everything already passed out. Her home was gone, I had taken over her "stuff". I wasnt even going to go there. I didnt even contact the executor. Still havent. If they put it into probate all that would have happened would have been to force the sale of her stuff to pay medicaid back for her stay in the nursing home and Im not selling her furniture. Nope not happening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 289454, member: 1514"] Well I probably did things all completely wrong but when I packed up my mom to bring her to my house, everything she had came to me. Now she had very little of my things anymore. Not even pictures of me. I was that unimportant to her. I think she had two pictures of me as a baby and small child. What I did get is pictures of my grandmother and great grandparents which do mean something to me but Im sure she never thought they would. I also have all her furniture and her antiques. Some of it is quite valuable...at least it has a whole lot of sentimental value to me, more than she would have ever known, and more than I would have ever thought. I will never part with most things. I may give the boys a piece here and there. My mom was really into authentic Blue Willow. I have no idea why I want her furniture but it reminds me of my family and it is a part of me. It is something I will probably pass down to the grandkids. But...I bypassed the executor. By the time my mom really didnt have any assets left in her possession. I considered everything already passed out. Her home was gone, I had taken over her "stuff". I wasnt even going to go there. I didnt even contact the executor. Still havent. If they put it into probate all that would have happened would have been to force the sale of her stuff to pay medicaid back for her stay in the nursing home and Im not selling her furniture. Nope not happening. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
I may be getting too far out
Top