Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
Family of Origin
I miss my sister...for the first time in say 55 years.
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 654935" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>So, I can understand where my sister would interpreting everything as finally healing that mother wound.</p><p></p><p>That would take precedence over any sister or brother. To have the mother's presence and full attention.</p><p></p><p>There were other weirdnesses, things that could not possibly have happened the way my mother described them, things having to do with my sister's intense pleasure in having her parents there in her home.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>Okay you guys. So, do I answer the phone when she calls or not.</p><p></p><p>We just lost a first cousin. Do I commiserate with her? No, I say no. She will be fine.</p><p></p><p>That I might be putting all these little pieces together does not change that my sister is not able to see, and respond to me, as other than a threat.</p><p></p><p>I think you are very correct in your assessment, SWOT.</p><p></p><p>Thank you. Oh, thank you very much. I knew there had to be some explanation that would fit the wrongnesses that are happening.</p><p></p><p>This makes sense, and will change my behavior toward my sister in future.</p><p></p><p>It's going to be a mess when my mother passes, isn't it.</p><p></p><p>My sister had a really hard time with my dad's passing, too.</p><p></p><p>I mean in an unusual way.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 654935, member: 17461"] So, I can understand where my sister would interpreting everything as finally healing that mother wound. That would take precedence over any sister or brother. To have the mother's presence and full attention. There were other weirdnesses, things that could not possibly have happened the way my mother described them, things having to do with my sister's intense pleasure in having her parents there in her home. Cedar Okay you guys. So, do I answer the phone when she calls or not. We just lost a first cousin. Do I commiserate with her? No, I say no. She will be fine. That I might be putting all these little pieces together does not change that my sister is not able to see, and respond to me, as other than a threat. I think you are very correct in your assessment, SWOT. Thank you. Oh, thank you very much. I knew there had to be some explanation that would fit the wrongnesses that are happening. This makes sense, and will change my behavior toward my sister in future. It's going to be a mess when my mother passes, isn't it. My sister had a really hard time with my dad's passing, too. I mean in an unusual way. Cedar [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
Family of Origin
I miss my sister...for the first time in say 55 years.
Top