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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 600003" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Trinity is so right! Process A is ridiculous to even consider and Process B requires you to be able to exert some sort of control or supervision over difficult child's life, which was not possible when he was under your roof - I can't imagine it would work now!</p><p></p><p>Also - I know you are not in the states, so the "legal" issues might not be the same - but you will want to consider the realities of agreeing to pay rent for difficult child. If he has no income / employment or even job prospects, the the person signing the lease will be YOU. And when difficult child chooses not to comply with some requirement you made - now YOU are going to be forced to "break" the lease which YOU signed - which may incur penalties, not the least of which may be a poor credit rating. Plus - if you pay, then later decide not to pay, difficult child will likely be angry and guess who will be liable for any damage / theft difficult child causes the property on his way out? YOU!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 600003, member: 6546"] Trinity is so right! Process A is ridiculous to even consider and Process B requires you to be able to exert some sort of control or supervision over difficult child's life, which was not possible when he was under your roof - I can't imagine it would work now! Also - I know you are not in the states, so the "legal" issues might not be the same - but you will want to consider the realities of agreeing to pay rent for difficult child. If he has no income / employment or even job prospects, the the person signing the lease will be YOU. And when difficult child chooses not to comply with some requirement you made - now YOU are going to be forced to "break" the lease which YOU signed - which may incur penalties, not the least of which may be a poor credit rating. Plus - if you pay, then later decide not to pay, difficult child will likely be angry and guess who will be liable for any damage / theft difficult child causes the property on his way out? YOU! [/QUOTE]
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