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<blockquote data-quote="Jabberwockey" data-source="post: 740487" data-attributes="member: 18238"><p>I'm so sorry you're having to go through this yet again Copa. Its bad enough dealing with the life they chose to live. It can be devastating when they refuse to let you have peace and keep trying to pull you back into their drama.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>And this is how it should be. he will NEVER learn if you keep swooping in to save him and you know it. Well, your head knows it. Your heart is another matter.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, this is the mentality that keeps me employed. It was the same with our son. Nothing was EVER his fault. He HAD to quit because the boss was an <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />. He HAD to spend/steal that money because someone else needed help or was pressuring him for what he owed.</p><p></p><p>Whether you block him or not, I wouldn't have him communicate with M if he is more apt to agree to something that you don't want.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Its also EXACTLY why you shouldn't let it be you. Or M for that matter because that essentially makes it you anyway.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Again, not HIS fault. If they have no one to blame then they have to start considering where THEY went wrong and they just aren't ready to do that yet.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 740487, member: 18238"] I'm so sorry you're having to go through this yet again Copa. Its bad enough dealing with the life they chose to live. It can be devastating when they refuse to let you have peace and keep trying to pull you back into their drama. And this is how it should be. he will NEVER learn if you keep swooping in to save him and you know it. Well, your head knows it. Your heart is another matter. Unfortunately, this is the mentality that keeps me employed. It was the same with our son. Nothing was EVER his fault. He HAD to quit because the boss was an :censored2:. He HAD to spend/steal that money because someone else needed help or was pressuring him for what he owed. Whether you block him or not, I wouldn't have him communicate with M if he is more apt to agree to something that you don't want. Its also EXACTLY why you shouldn't let it be you. Or M for that matter because that essentially makes it you anyway. Again, not HIS fault. If they have no one to blame then they have to start considering where THEY went wrong and they just aren't ready to do that yet. [/QUOTE]
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