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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 740848" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>Copa, reading this..I hadn't thought about my son's birthday. when it comes I guess I will be very sad about him. These self serving manipulative adult children, they don't car what they do to us. Not really. All they care about is what they can get out of us. Yet we feel guilty and want to help them.</p><p></p><p>I spent and hour on the phone with my bff today. She asked about son. Oh what to say anymore. the only time I hear from him is when he needs something, usually involves money. My friend pointed out that I am worth more than that. That I shouldn't enable him to ask me for money, that I should spend it on myself but not give it to him. I don't think he is doing drugs, I have seen and talked to him in person and I think he just blows money. The when it comes time for rent he is short. He has a full time job, and he needs a part time to supplement. He quit the part time,,he says..or did he steal and get fired? I can't help but wonder.</p><p></p><p>Anyhow.. know you are worth more than how he treats you. You are wonderful to care about him even though he really doesn't deserve your thoughts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 740848, member: 23103"] Copa, reading this..I hadn't thought about my son's birthday. when it comes I guess I will be very sad about him. These self serving manipulative adult children, they don't car what they do to us. Not really. All they care about is what they can get out of us. Yet we feel guilty and want to help them. I spent and hour on the phone with my bff today. She asked about son. Oh what to say anymore. the only time I hear from him is when he needs something, usually involves money. My friend pointed out that I am worth more than that. That I shouldn't enable him to ask me for money, that I should spend it on myself but not give it to him. I don't think he is doing drugs, I have seen and talked to him in person and I think he just blows money. The when it comes time for rent he is short. He has a full time job, and he needs a part time to supplement. He quit the part time,,he says..or did he steal and get fired? I can't help but wonder. Anyhow.. know you are worth more than how he treats you. You are wonderful to care about him even though he really doesn't deserve your thoughts. [/QUOTE]
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