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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 740972" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa you know I loved my father. It was not because he was kind and caring or even interested in any of our lives or his grandchildren. I will never forget the day he said in a very angry bitter voice "Not one of you has given me one moment of pleasure! Not ONE!" This is not the worst thing he probably said nor did he ever apologize. He thought it was okay to say things like that. In his mind, it was us, not him. Then maybe he forgot or was satisfied with his scathing comment. Who knows which? But I loved him for one reason. He loved me the best he could, nasty comments and all, and treated me the same way he treated the others. That meant everything to me because my mother, my narc uncle, my sister and my brother treated me lesser than. So I cherished him for that. Even though all three of us kids used to say out loud to one another "He is not a nice man" we overlooked his meaness snd loved him. But we all knew he wasnt nice. We said so to each other.</p><p></p><p>Copa except in childhood I never thought of my FOO as my tribe. My enemies maybe. I started emotionally leaving in my late 30s and dont miss any of them. I consider my family of choice my real DNA. Maybe I think differently than others.</p><p></p><p>It has been close to a year without my DNA tribe and I miss them not at all. And to be honest...and since I will never talk to my brother again in this lifetime....I can tell the truth now. The biggest reason I was nice to my brother before he gave me my inheritance was the mild fear thay he wouldnt give me my inheritance. He probably would have noatter what but I wanted to make it easy. He says he was not affected by my mother or sister regarding me, but it is an obvious lie. As soon as I decided sister was unhealthy for me, he would not answer my texts anymore. Duh! He was unfluenced greatly by my mom and her. Nothing else had happened except the thing with Sis </p><p></p><p>Copa I dont have that sort of DNA tribe. If I did then Jumper, Princess and Sonic would not be my tribe. THEY are. Hub too.</p><p></p><p>My son can join my tribe but those in my tribe have to treat me well. And I will treat them well.</p><p></p><p>Copa I hope your son sees the light. He is your tribe. Your nasty sister is not! M. Is your tribe too.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 740972, member: 1550"] Copa you know I loved my father. It was not because he was kind and caring or even interested in any of our lives or his grandchildren. I will never forget the day he said in a very angry bitter voice "Not one of you has given me one moment of pleasure! Not ONE!" This is not the worst thing he probably said nor did he ever apologize. He thought it was okay to say things like that. In his mind, it was us, not him. Then maybe he forgot or was satisfied with his scathing comment. Who knows which? But I loved him for one reason. He loved me the best he could, nasty comments and all, and treated me the same way he treated the others. That meant everything to me because my mother, my narc uncle, my sister and my brother treated me lesser than. So I cherished him for that. Even though all three of us kids used to say out loud to one another "He is not a nice man" we overlooked his meaness snd loved him. But we all knew he wasnt nice. We said so to each other. Copa except in childhood I never thought of my FOO as my tribe. My enemies maybe. I started emotionally leaving in my late 30s and dont miss any of them. I consider my family of choice my real DNA. Maybe I think differently than others. It has been close to a year without my DNA tribe and I miss them not at all. And to be honest...and since I will never talk to my brother again in this lifetime....I can tell the truth now. The biggest reason I was nice to my brother before he gave me my inheritance was the mild fear thay he wouldnt give me my inheritance. He probably would have noatter what but I wanted to make it easy. He says he was not affected by my mother or sister regarding me, but it is an obvious lie. As soon as I decided sister was unhealthy for me, he would not answer my texts anymore. Duh! He was unfluenced greatly by my mom and her. Nothing else had happened except the thing with Sis Copa I dont have that sort of DNA tribe. If I did then Jumper, Princess and Sonic would not be my tribe. THEY are. Hub too. My son can join my tribe but those in my tribe have to treat me well. And I will treat them well. Copa I hope your son sees the light. He is your tribe. Your nasty sister is not! M. Is your tribe too. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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