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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 740985" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This feels horrible to me.</p><p>I think this is cruel. She could have just responded, "thank you." Or if she wanted to go further she could have said, "there is a lot of water under the bridge. But thank you." </p><p></p><p>But to deliberately hurt you says way more about her than about you. She is showing that she is the dangerous and vengeful one, not you. </p><p></p><p>I have a very similar situation with my own sister, who has communicated to me in the same way. She also used the term "sister" in a rageful, sarcastic, screaming way. Which made me afraid. Still afterwards I tried to reach out to her, and she refused. But she used my reaching out as a way to blame and hurt me. </p><p></p><p>This is really about them, not us. </p><p></p><p>I believe my sister was envious of me her whole life and could not come to grips with this. These things happen. Like SWOT says, we have to do our best to move on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 740985, member: 18958"] This feels horrible to me. I think this is cruel. She could have just responded, "thank you." Or if she wanted to go further she could have said, "there is a lot of water under the bridge. But thank you." But to deliberately hurt you says way more about her than about you. She is showing that she is the dangerous and vengeful one, not you. I have a very similar situation with my own sister, who has communicated to me in the same way. She also used the term "sister" in a rageful, sarcastic, screaming way. Which made me afraid. Still afterwards I tried to reach out to her, and she refused. But she used my reaching out as a way to blame and hurt me. This is really about them, not us. I believe my sister was envious of me her whole life and could not come to grips with this. These things happen. Like SWOT says, we have to do our best to move on. [/QUOTE]
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