True he does know we both speak our mind. I never really thought of it like that. And he complains so often that he must have suspected we would say something soon.
But I myself am like a mother bear when my kids are the targets. I will rip someone a new *** if the say anything about my kids. LOL
But with that being said, husband and I do not have ostrich syndrome and are open and honest about difficult child's issues and work extremely hard to help difficult child become a decent young man. (and easy child too of course)
I just see all his siblings as lazy, uncaring, selfish parents and that is that.