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I think H has flipped his lid
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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 82398" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Yep! I agree! He has <strong>lost it</strong>! My best advice to you is to ...</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #FF0000"><span style='font-size: 14pt'>RUN!!!</span></span> :dance:</p><p></p><p>Just keep reminding yourself that he CHOSE this! When we CHOOSE the behaviors, we also CHOOSE the consequences. Men who cheat on their wives at the worst possible time, move out and form a whole new circle of "friends" run the risk of being alone on the holidays! Too bad, so sad! HIS choice!</p><p></p><p>His "new life" isn't what he thought it would be, he's regreting giving up what he had, and now he's desperately trying to get back into his old familiar life, just like nothing ever happened! He still doesn't sound like he's willing to accept responsibility for all this! Instead he's rationalizing, twisting things around, and trying to put it all off on you! He probaby has <em>himself</em> almost convinced! It just gets worse and worse!</p><p></p><p>I really think men have a much harder time being on their own than women do, at least at first. They suddenly realize that laundry doesn't do itself and dinner doesn't magically appear on the table at night and houses are not self-cleaning. That's why so many of them rush right into another relationship (or get back into the old one!) He keeps trying to draw you back in to all the craziness and keep you involved in his life, no matter what. You're going to have to learn to "detach" from him and his problems the same way we sometimes have to "detach" from our childrens' chaotic lives. You are not responsible for his choices or his behavior - he is. He's a grown man and he needs to take responsibility and solve his problems on his own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 82398, member: 1883"] Yep! I agree! He has [b]lost it[/b]! My best advice to you is to ... <span style="color: #FF0000"><span style='font-size: 14pt'>RUN!!!</span></span> [img]:dance:[/img] Just keep reminding yourself that he CHOSE this! When we CHOOSE the behaviors, we also CHOOSE the consequences. Men who cheat on their wives at the worst possible time, move out and form a whole new circle of "friends" run the risk of being alone on the holidays! Too bad, so sad! HIS choice! His "new life" isn't what he thought it would be, he's regreting giving up what he had, and now he's desperately trying to get back into his old familiar life, just like nothing ever happened! He still doesn't sound like he's willing to accept responsibility for all this! Instead he's rationalizing, twisting things around, and trying to put it all off on you! He probaby has [i]himself[/i] almost convinced! It just gets worse and worse! I really think men have a much harder time being on their own than women do, at least at first. They suddenly realize that laundry doesn't do itself and dinner doesn't magically appear on the table at night and houses are not self-cleaning. That's why so many of them rush right into another relationship (or get back into the old one!) He keeps trying to draw you back in to all the craziness and keep you involved in his life, no matter what. You're going to have to learn to "detach" from him and his problems the same way we sometimes have to "detach" from our childrens' chaotic lives. You are not responsible for his choices or his behavior - he is. He's a grown man and he needs to take responsibility and solve his problems on his own. [/QUOTE]
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