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I think I messed up (long vent)
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 237585" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I'm not in your shoes so I realy can't advise you. Sorry. All I can say, is that you perhaps need to say to the kids, "I shouldn't have said what I did, that was not the right way for me to behave." And leave it at that. If the kids choose to, they will tell him. But from what you have said, I think your kids realise you weren't lying to them. Plus you've been still bending over backwards to continue their father's access visit.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't say anything to their father about what you said. After all, can you be so sure he hasn't simmilarly vented at times? I suspect tat if you confess, all it will do is cause more pain and more trouble and he could even use it against you, even if he has done the same thing himself.</p><p></p><p>This sort of thing happens. It shouldn't happen but people are human. We all need to remember, "There but for the grace of God go I" and be forgiving.</p><p></p><p>And move on. Remember the wise words of Scarlett O'Hara - "Tomorrow is another day."</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 237585, member: 1991"] I'm not in your shoes so I realy can't advise you. Sorry. All I can say, is that you perhaps need to say to the kids, "I shouldn't have said what I did, that was not the right way for me to behave." And leave it at that. If the kids choose to, they will tell him. But from what you have said, I think your kids realise you weren't lying to them. Plus you've been still bending over backwards to continue their father's access visit. I wouldn't say anything to their father about what you said. After all, can you be so sure he hasn't simmilarly vented at times? I suspect tat if you confess, all it will do is cause more pain and more trouble and he could even use it against you, even if he has done the same thing himself. This sort of thing happens. It shouldn't happen but people are human. We all need to remember, "There but for the grace of God go I" and be forgiving. And move on. Remember the wise words of Scarlett O'Hara - "Tomorrow is another day." Marg [/QUOTE]
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