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I told her she has to move out by the end of month. I am heartsick.
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 589927" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>Thank you, all. I really need you guys right now. In a weird way, it even helps that you know "the look". It isn't the typical teen glower ... it is as if the soul has left the body. I know you get it.</p><p></p><p>Nancy, she does still have the job. If she's behaving at work in even a fraction of the manner she's behaving here, though, it wil not last.</p><p></p><p>One of these lies was not the slide of the tongue kind. It was pretty calculated. I'd told her that I would "kick back" part of her rent that she'd paid to reinstate her car insurance. She'd had to buy a new car battery and I do get how hard it is to plan when you're first dealing with bills. I also know difficult child's have even a harder time. </p><p></p><p>She told me a few weeks ago (and she brought it up) that she was paying her insurance that day. She said she'd stop back after work and get the money, because she knew she'd spend if she took it to work. I wisely said "Oh,I'll just give you a check. Then you can stop on the way". She came home and triumphantly flashed her insurance card. Being an idiot (or too trusting), I thought nothing of it. After all, I hadn't given her cash. Long story, and I found out quite innocently, she never renewed it. Why? She had the money. She can't - or won't answer. The check was never cashed ... now I KNOW the cash would have been long gone, but she had nothing to lose. AND she went out of her way to lie. The insurance card (duh) is the one that was issued with the policy, but she still hadn't paid. Paid car insurance was part of the condition of her staying here ... and Ossy says the same thing. It may not sound like a big deal, but there were other lies AND the big lie a few weeks back when she said a girlfriend was picking her up (for a sleepover) whe it was, in fact, a guy from the internet she'd only met that day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 589927, member: 9175"] Thank you, all. I really need you guys right now. In a weird way, it even helps that you know "the look". It isn't the typical teen glower ... it is as if the soul has left the body. I know you get it. Nancy, she does still have the job. If she's behaving at work in even a fraction of the manner she's behaving here, though, it wil not last. One of these lies was not the slide of the tongue kind. It was pretty calculated. I'd told her that I would "kick back" part of her rent that she'd paid to reinstate her car insurance. She'd had to buy a new car battery and I do get how hard it is to plan when you're first dealing with bills. I also know difficult child's have even a harder time. She told me a few weeks ago (and she brought it up) that she was paying her insurance that day. She said she'd stop back after work and get the money, because she knew she'd spend if she took it to work. I wisely said "Oh,I'll just give you a check. Then you can stop on the way". She came home and triumphantly flashed her insurance card. Being an idiot (or too trusting), I thought nothing of it. After all, I hadn't given her cash. Long story, and I found out quite innocently, she never renewed it. Why? She had the money. She can't - or won't answer. The check was never cashed ... now I KNOW the cash would have been long gone, but she had nothing to lose. AND she went out of her way to lie. The insurance card (duh) is the one that was issued with the policy, but she still hadn't paid. Paid car insurance was part of the condition of her staying here ... and Ossy says the same thing. It may not sound like a big deal, but there were other lies AND the big lie a few weeks back when she said a girlfriend was picking her up (for a sleepover) whe it was, in fact, a guy from the internet she'd only met that day. [/QUOTE]
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