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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 598581" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>He definitely wants contact with easy child to manipulate her. To play oh pity me and get her to give him money and things so that he won't have to ask you or admit to hmself or anyone that you would help if he asked and meant sincerely to change his life. </p><p></p><p>Turn the phone off. In an emergency, someone else wll have a phone or he can walk into a business and use theirs. It is easy. Actually, it is easeir now to get help in an emergency than when we were kids because so many people have cell phones that your difficult child doesn't NEED one. Or need pay phones.</p><p></p><p>Your difficult child is attemting to bully you into doing what he wants. I don't know what SA is, but lying on it would not be the right thing. it is wrong for difficult child to even ask you to back up his lies. </p><p></p><p>As for having to support him, not so much. As long as there is a place he CAN sleep at home, food he CAN eat, shelter, the bare bones basics, you are NOT required to provide ANY of these things for him o utside your home. It could be a couch to sleep on, ramen noodles for food, shlothing that is old/used, you are generally NOT responsible for providing any of these if he wont' live at home.</p><p></p><p>the cops arenot going to dreag himback most likely.But they are NOT going to charge you with anything or make any demands about you giving him food money, a vehicle, etc...Their view is that difficult child refused to follow the rules and CHOSE to leave your home. If you can choose to leave, you choose to pay your on way, legaly anyway.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 598581, member: 1233"] He definitely wants contact with easy child to manipulate her. To play oh pity me and get her to give him money and things so that he won't have to ask you or admit to hmself or anyone that you would help if he asked and meant sincerely to change his life. Turn the phone off. In an emergency, someone else wll have a phone or he can walk into a business and use theirs. It is easy. Actually, it is easeir now to get help in an emergency than when we were kids because so many people have cell phones that your difficult child doesn't NEED one. Or need pay phones. Your difficult child is attemting to bully you into doing what he wants. I don't know what SA is, but lying on it would not be the right thing. it is wrong for difficult child to even ask you to back up his lies. As for having to support him, not so much. As long as there is a place he CAN sleep at home, food he CAN eat, shelter, the bare bones basics, you are NOT required to provide ANY of these things for him o utside your home. It could be a couch to sleep on, ramen noodles for food, shlothing that is old/used, you are generally NOT responsible for providing any of these if he wont' live at home. the cops arenot going to dreag himback most likely.But they are NOT going to charge you with anything or make any demands about you giving him food money, a vehicle, etc...Their view is that difficult child refused to follow the rules and CHOSE to leave your home. If you can choose to leave, you choose to pay your on way, legaly anyway. [/QUOTE]
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