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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 479228" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I understand Marg - I know your heart is sincere and genuine. I just don't think I was explaining myself too well - I think I sort of mixed up 2 trains of thoughts into one. In mind they connected - but on paper they didn't seem to.</p><p></p><p>K - I think you nailed it. She is stuck in the angry phase, and it is coming out in little ways. No she has not sought out any help, which I assumed she wouldn't. She does not like to talk about her feelings. (How are on earth she produced me - I will never know). My counselor suggested just really talking to her, and laying things on the table with her. That it seems like she is perhaps angry about dad dying and it is coming out in these other ways that I see. Or maybe not even bring up my dad to her, but just saying I feel statements to her when she says things that are hurtful.</p><p></p><p>I think the reason I mentioned being sensitive is because if I didn't intuitively feel what was going on than this whole thing wouldn't bother me - and how great would that be!!! So sometimes I just wish I did not care or notice if someone else is sad or angry. That is all. Oh well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 479228, member: 3301"] I understand Marg - I know your heart is sincere and genuine. I just don't think I was explaining myself too well - I think I sort of mixed up 2 trains of thoughts into one. In mind they connected - but on paper they didn't seem to. K - I think you nailed it. She is stuck in the angry phase, and it is coming out in little ways. No she has not sought out any help, which I assumed she wouldn't. She does not like to talk about her feelings. (How are on earth she produced me - I will never know). My counselor suggested just really talking to her, and laying things on the table with her. That it seems like she is perhaps angry about dad dying and it is coming out in these other ways that I see. Or maybe not even bring up my dad to her, but just saying I feel statements to her when she says things that are hurtful. I think the reason I mentioned being sensitive is because if I didn't intuitively feel what was going on than this whole thing wouldn't bother me - and how great would that be!!! So sometimes I just wish I did not care or notice if someone else is sad or angry. That is all. Oh well. [/QUOTE]
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