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Identity after realizing you have no real FOO (Family of Origin). My thoughts.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 655133" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is just me ventnig again and nobody has to answer and I am ok with that. Heck, if nobody even reads it, I at least have a chance to write.</p><p></p><p>I am straightening out my identity so it will be clear to me and for all of those who are alienated from family, it is empowering to figure out who you really are.</p><p></p><p>I Pam Slam (not my real last name) had a beloved grandmothe and a beloved father. I have no other parent who took on the role in a compassionate way so no reason to even mention the person as my parent.</p><p></p><p>I am an only child.</p><p></p><p>I have no aunts, uncles, cousins that I am close to (I really have very few I even ever met).</p><p></p><p>I am a beloved wife and mother to four. I adopted a son who chose to leave the family. I love him lots and am happy he is happy and am peaceful with his decision.</p><p></p><p>I have two grandbabies, very beloved.</p><p></p><p>I am creative, talkative (but not a good communicator...yes, there is a difference) and am quite perceptive. I am somebody people come to for advice, which sometimes makes me uncomfortable.</p><p></p><p>I am interested in all kinds of psychology, forensics, working out, writing, reading and reflecting on life and it's meaning.</p><p></p><p>I am mostly an introvert and am quiet unless I know you well...then look out.</p><p></p><p>My best trait is my compassion.</p><p></p><p>What I like to do more than anything in the world is to help others in need and animals in need.</p><p></p><p>I have learned to take care of myself as well as be kind and loving to my loved ones.</p><p></p><p>I feel loved and at peace most of the time.</p><p></p><p>Ok, I'm just playing around here. I just decided I will not ever say I had a mother as she was not really appropriate for the role, but my grandmother did raise and love me. There is no point in listing DNA siblings who are not a part of my life. Maybe because I understand attachment, I both forgive and love Goneboy, but I am peaceful with his not coming back. I realize, in fact, that I would not feel comfortable around him and mostly his wife and like to feel totally at home with my kids and grands. I am very content with my family as it is right now.</p><p></p><p>I also have a dear friend that I consider connected to me in a spiritual way.</p><p></p><p>If this makes no sense to you, I understand...lol. No responses expected <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 655133, member: 1550"] This is just me ventnig again and nobody has to answer and I am ok with that. Heck, if nobody even reads it, I at least have a chance to write. I am straightening out my identity so it will be clear to me and for all of those who are alienated from family, it is empowering to figure out who you really are. I Pam Slam (not my real last name) had a beloved grandmothe and a beloved father. I have no other parent who took on the role in a compassionate way so no reason to even mention the person as my parent. I am an only child. I have no aunts, uncles, cousins that I am close to (I really have very few I even ever met). I am a beloved wife and mother to four. I adopted a son who chose to leave the family. I love him lots and am happy he is happy and am peaceful with his decision. I have two grandbabies, very beloved. I am creative, talkative (but not a good communicator...yes, there is a difference) and am quite perceptive. I am somebody people come to for advice, which sometimes makes me uncomfortable. I am interested in all kinds of psychology, forensics, working out, writing, reading and reflecting on life and it's meaning. I am mostly an introvert and am quiet unless I know you well...then look out. My best trait is my compassion. What I like to do more than anything in the world is to help others in need and animals in need. I have learned to take care of myself as well as be kind and loving to my loved ones. I feel loved and at peace most of the time. Ok, I'm just playing around here. I just decided I will not ever say I had a mother as she was not really appropriate for the role, but my grandmother did raise and love me. There is no point in listing DNA siblings who are not a part of my life. Maybe because I understand attachment, I both forgive and love Goneboy, but I am peaceful with his not coming back. I realize, in fact, that I would not feel comfortable around him and mostly his wife and like to feel totally at home with my kids and grands. I am very content with my family as it is right now. I also have a dear friend that I consider connected to me in a spiritual way. If this makes no sense to you, I understand...lol. No responses expected :) [/QUOTE]
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