Hello, everyone.
We made it home safely.
:0)
Here is an interesting thing: As I acknowledge the real barriers to valid communication for my FOO, it is freeing me from the self-concept ~ from that niggling little sense of sadness and shame ~ that were part and parcel of the me who believed in the possibility for wholeness.
All at once, I suppose, at different times or around different issues, that they miss me. In the past, I would have viewed those same events from the opposite point of view.
I would have been sad to be without them, and would have felt badly for the state our FOO was in.
This is an amazingly better perspective to see us from.
Cedar
P.S. My son called last night.
:0)
Nice man.
