I agree with you all.
He called for a ride home. Then he asked husband if I had cooked?
No, we had all just gotten in from easy child's practice and I spent time with my horses today, not cooking in the kitchen.
I went in to tell him we needed to talk ~ he had that strange calmness that I have seen before. Someone else had to explain to me the calmness comes from the high of cocaine.
I wasn't going to waste my time trying to reason with him in that condition, so I told him tomorrow after work we will talk.
I am glad I posted about this and got insight from you all.
I am looking at it in a different light. I was going to use only the drug test and I had no idea what to do if it was negative.
The issue is the disrespect and chaos he causes.
And yes, I am just tired of the walking on eggshells in my own home.
And if he is spending his weekends getting high or drunk or who knows what else, he needs to be on his own where he will suffer the consequences. As it stands now he shows up before 9 on sunday night and acts like everything is fine.
Say a prayer for me, I am straightening my backbone and getting up off the floor.
