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If you could raise your kids again, what would you change?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 691304" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Lil.</p><p></p><p>We could have done it all differently--as did other parents here. With the same result. Would you have done it all over--differently--with the same result, would you have?</p><p></p><p>What is the point? Your son has an essence that is his alone. Lil. You have enormous kindness and caring in you. Where is it, towards Lil?</p><p></p><p>All I hear (I mean, read) is self-judgment. Who was it, above, in a daze, yes, who did everything R I G H T. And it was still, wrong. These are human beings, our kids, not recipes. </p><p></p><p>I really, really believe in the message of P.E. on this website, as I understand it, the over-arching message: It is not your fault. Detach. Live well. Let our kids handle themselves. Forgive yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 691304, member: 18958"] Lil. We could have done it all differently--as did other parents here. With the same result. Would you have done it all over--differently--with the same result, would you have? What is the point? Your son has an essence that is his alone. Lil. You have enormous kindness and caring in you. Where is it, towards Lil? All I hear (I mean, read) is self-judgment. Who was it, above, in a daze, yes, who did everything R I G H T. And it was still, wrong. These are human beings, our kids, not recipes. I really, really believe in the message of P.E. on this website, as I understand it, the over-arching message: It is not your fault. Detach. Live well. Let our kids handle themselves. Forgive yourself. [/QUOTE]
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