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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 652558" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Why won't you contact your DEpt. of Public Education. They will not treat your kids badly if they are in control (quite the opposite. They need to look good to the DPE). If you don't, then you gave up your best card and your children won't get help. I don't know what state you're in. If it is IL or WI, they DO respond to the department of public ed..in fact it scares them. And a good advocate will take the district to court, which also scares them. They tend to behave when you take control. They know when they are breaking the law. I wouldn't use an advocate that is with the school district. You don't move forward if you only work within the district that is not cooperating.</p><p></p><p>It's your call, but it doesn't have to be as bad as it is. You are just not trying anything new.</p><p></p><p>I think most school districts will get away with what they can. This is all states. You have to contact somebody who can tell them they have no choice and who can make sure your kids are not mistreated. Top men on the totem poll is the Dept. of Education. I don't think my autistic son would be half as functional or have as much knowledge if he had not gotten the supports he needed and nobody ever treated him anything but nice. And I had to fight for services just like you. They didn'[t want to do it. My advocate was a pitbull and had taken several school districts to court (on their dime) and won. You need a good, confident advocate. </p><p></p><p>Nobody picked on their kids with a court order in place and the DPE watching them.</p><p></p><p>Up to you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Good luck, whatever you decide.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 652558, member: 1550"] Why won't you contact your DEpt. of Public Education. They will not treat your kids badly if they are in control (quite the opposite. They need to look good to the DPE). If you don't, then you gave up your best card and your children won't get help. I don't know what state you're in. If it is IL or WI, they DO respond to the department of public ed..in fact it scares them. And a good advocate will take the district to court, which also scares them. They tend to behave when you take control. They know when they are breaking the law. I wouldn't use an advocate that is with the school district. You don't move forward if you only work within the district that is not cooperating. It's your call, but it doesn't have to be as bad as it is. You are just not trying anything new. I think most school districts will get away with what they can. This is all states. You have to contact somebody who can tell them they have no choice and who can make sure your kids are not mistreated. Top men on the totem poll is the Dept. of Education. I don't think my autistic son would be half as functional or have as much knowledge if he had not gotten the supports he needed and nobody ever treated him anything but nice. And I had to fight for services just like you. They didn'[t want to do it. My advocate was a pitbull and had taken several school districts to court (on their dime) and won. You need a good, confident advocate. Nobody picked on their kids with a court order in place and the DPE watching them. Up to you :) Good luck, whatever you decide. [/QUOTE]
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