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Im an aunt of an 18 year old and needs help
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<blockquote data-quote="tryingaunt" data-source="post: 728469" data-attributes="member: 22806"><p>The car he is using is in my fathers name, and the nephew now only has use of it to go on job interviews. My dad is paying for the insurance and gas for this purpose only. I was unaware that he had previously been given until the 28th to get full time employment, so my dad put that date on the eviction notice and that it was served on the first of this month, since that was the verbal agreement they had. He is checking his credit as we speak, and I told him he was to take the car keys with him when he leaves the house. I am aware the kid has taken the car when my dad leaves in the evenings, so that will now stop. I have checked my credit cards as my husband has also and we both are good. This just sucks as we have really tried and I do feel for the kid. He is my brother's son, who passed away 4 years ago. I know the kid has been thru and my dad is dealing with some guilt which is why we have all dealt with this for a while. I know he was smoking weed occasionally when he was with us. I am a pharmacist so am adamant about it not being in my home or cars. My dad insists he is not smoking or drinking. I believe the smoking is done, but not the alcohol. I have instructed my dad to make him take a drug test for the weed, but not sure if he will follow through on that or not. I know we just want him gone at this point and are counting the days til the 28th. Not sure where my dad is planning on buying the plane ticket to since we are not positive where his mother is. Last we knew she was in Pennsylvania working til her employment could be reinstated in her home due to the hurricaine damage. </p><p>Thank you again for all of your suggestions. It seems you all have dealt with something like this and have experience. I am so grateful that I do not with my own kids. Although my son is on the Autism Spectrum and we have had issues in the past, for now he is working-part time-but working and covering his expenses and computer habits. He tried college, but had many difficulties so not worth it for him right now. Told him he could revisit at a later date if he feels the need in the future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingaunt, post: 728469, member: 22806"] The car he is using is in my fathers name, and the nephew now only has use of it to go on job interviews. My dad is paying for the insurance and gas for this purpose only. I was unaware that he had previously been given until the 28th to get full time employment, so my dad put that date on the eviction notice and that it was served on the first of this month, since that was the verbal agreement they had. He is checking his credit as we speak, and I told him he was to take the car keys with him when he leaves the house. I am aware the kid has taken the car when my dad leaves in the evenings, so that will now stop. I have checked my credit cards as my husband has also and we both are good. This just sucks as we have really tried and I do feel for the kid. He is my brother's son, who passed away 4 years ago. I know the kid has been thru and my dad is dealing with some guilt which is why we have all dealt with this for a while. I know he was smoking weed occasionally when he was with us. I am a pharmacist so am adamant about it not being in my home or cars. My dad insists he is not smoking or drinking. I believe the smoking is done, but not the alcohol. I have instructed my dad to make him take a drug test for the weed, but not sure if he will follow through on that or not. I know we just want him gone at this point and are counting the days til the 28th. Not sure where my dad is planning on buying the plane ticket to since we are not positive where his mother is. Last we knew she was in Pennsylvania working til her employment could be reinstated in her home due to the hurricaine damage. Thank you again for all of your suggestions. It seems you all have dealt with something like this and have experience. I am so grateful that I do not with my own kids. Although my son is on the Autism Spectrum and we have had issues in the past, for now he is working-part time-but working and covering his expenses and computer habits. He tried college, but had many difficulties so not worth it for him right now. Told him he could revisit at a later date if he feels the need in the future. [/QUOTE]
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