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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 154599" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Wow, I feel sick.</p><p>I agree with everyone. "Restraining mates" is classified as abuse. That is why we have police, and do not advocate citizens intervening in volatile situations.</p><p></p><p>I think you need to take a step back, and become more objective. It is hard to do what you are doing, and set the limits, when you are too close. Bottom line, detach, and think about this as if you were reading it as a story in the paper, then how would you handle it? I think you already have the outline of how to handle this - but implementing the plan might be hard since you are so close to all of this. Keep focused, and strong.</p><p></p><p>The biggest thing that kept popping into my mind when I read your post is the baby. What about Aubrey? </p><p>I think I would pull out the grandma trump card, and say, if the baby is witness to anymore of your idiotic drama I am calling CPS. </p><p></p><p>If Nichole and boyfriend want to be dysfunctional doormats for each other, so be it - but the baby has a right to grow up in a happy, harmonic, healthy home.</p><p></p><p>Many, many hugs. This must be SO hard. Major strength being sent your way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 154599, member: 3301"] Wow, I feel sick. I agree with everyone. "Restraining mates" is classified as abuse. That is why we have police, and do not advocate citizens intervening in volatile situations. I think you need to take a step back, and become more objective. It is hard to do what you are doing, and set the limits, when you are too close. Bottom line, detach, and think about this as if you were reading it as a story in the paper, then how would you handle it? I think you already have the outline of how to handle this - but implementing the plan might be hard since you are so close to all of this. Keep focused, and strong. The biggest thing that kept popping into my mind when I read your post is the baby. What about Aubrey? I think I would pull out the grandma trump card, and say, if the baby is witness to anymore of your idiotic drama I am calling CPS. If Nichole and boyfriend want to be dysfunctional doormats for each other, so be it - but the baby has a right to grow up in a happy, harmonic, healthy home. Many, many hugs. This must be SO hard. Major strength being sent your way. [/QUOTE]
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