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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 154606" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Start a journal - go back as far as you can and write this story. Purchase a calendar and start marking dates. Color code - </p><p> </p><p>Red = blow up date (write in journal the details)</p><p>Blue = cooling off period (write in journal how Nichole spent the time)</p><p>Green = boyfriend makes Nichole believe they are o.k. again.(write in journal what boyfriend says to get Nichole to return to him)</p><p> </p><p>When you get a chance show this to Nicole. There will be a pattern.</p><p> </p><p>Mostly though, this will be helpful when Nichole wakes up to the dangers she is facing and needs to get a retaining order against boyfriend. (make sure she includes the baby if she does this)</p><p> </p><p>What a very abusive person - encouraging independence but making sure it can not happen. He doesn't want to call police because he knows he will be in trouble. Calling you is trying to convince you of his story before you hear Nichole's (Very childish).</p><p> </p><p>Your plans sound doable. His next step will be to use the baby as a pawn so watch for that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 154606, member: 5096"] Start a journal - go back as far as you can and write this story. Purchase a calendar and start marking dates. Color code - Red = blow up date (write in journal the details) Blue = cooling off period (write in journal how Nichole spent the time) Green = boyfriend makes Nichole believe they are o.k. again.(write in journal what boyfriend says to get Nichole to return to him) When you get a chance show this to Nicole. There will be a pattern. Mostly though, this will be helpful when Nichole wakes up to the dangers she is facing and needs to get a retaining order against boyfriend. (make sure she includes the baby if she does this) What a very abusive person - encouraging independence but making sure it can not happen. He doesn't want to call police because he knows he will be in trouble. Calling you is trying to convince you of his story before you hear Nichole's (Very childish). Your plans sound doable. His next step will be to use the baby as a pawn so watch for that. [/QUOTE]
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