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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 555242" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>I'm sorry, TeDo, my gut reaction is to say something to the right people on charge-to hell with the job, etc. Realistically, I know that is not a risk you are willing to take at this point, which I totally understand...we all have to eat and pay the bills!</p><p></p><p>I suggest you find yourself a therapist who can help you work through these emotions you have and in the mean time, continue to do what you need to in order to avoid seeing her. Remember that this change in schedule is temporary, as you learn the skills necessary to deal with your emotions about her presence in both your workplace and small town. </p><p></p><p>It's so awful that those horrible predators don't just go away and crawl under a rock somewhere. difficult children sexual predator is out of jail (for about a year + now) and I'm constantly seeing young men who remind me of him, who could be him, but I'd never know for sure unless I stopped and asked him face to face. It's probably never been him, but the mind plays tricks on us. I have found a place in my heart to forgive him, unbelievable as that is, however, if I ever heard he did someone to another, I'd wish him dead. </p><p></p><p>I pray that as time moves forward you find peace. Hugs. Wish I had better advice for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 555242, member: 2211"] I'm sorry, TeDo, my gut reaction is to say something to the right people on charge-to hell with the job, etc. Realistically, I know that is not a risk you are willing to take at this point, which I totally understand...we all have to eat and pay the bills! I suggest you find yourself a therapist who can help you work through these emotions you have and in the mean time, continue to do what you need to in order to avoid seeing her. Remember that this change in schedule is temporary, as you learn the skills necessary to deal with your emotions about her presence in both your workplace and small town. It's so awful that those horrible predators don't just go away and crawl under a rock somewhere. difficult children sexual predator is out of jail (for about a year + now) and I'm constantly seeing young men who remind me of him, who could be him, but I'd never know for sure unless I stopped and asked him face to face. It's probably never been him, but the mind plays tricks on us. I have found a place in my heart to forgive him, unbelievable as that is, however, if I ever heard he did someone to another, I'd wish him dead. I pray that as time moves forward you find peace. Hugs. Wish I had better advice for you. [/QUOTE]
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