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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 133520" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Hiya sweetie</p><p></p><p>A cracked windshield? Seriously? What, did the luggage cart flip up a pebble? </p><p></p><p>OK, seriously. I get how you are feeling. Everything feels like overload; like you are on the outside looking in. Like you are numb. It's normal. It takes time. It will not always be like this. </p><p></p><p>Grief has 5 stages. Denial (I can't believe this really happened; you seem to be in it now), sadness (real, true pain; emotional and sometimes giving way to physical), anger (literally, "I can't believe she left me), bargaining (if only I had done this, maybe she'd have still been here) and acceptance (this is how it is, and I cannot change it). </p><p></p><p>We all go need to go through all 5 stages in order to heal. Maybe not in that order. Some stages last more than others. It depends. I see my DEX as a very angry, vindictive person, and I know for a fact that he never dealt with the loss of his brother properly. His brother died 8 1/2 years ago, in an accident, at the age of 23, and DEX has not been the same since. </p><p></p><p>Anyways, I use him as a comparison. I would hate for anyone to become like that. He has so much hurt in him, and it is because he is afraid of feeling. You know you have us to help you get through this.</p><p></p><p>Love, hugs, and prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 133520, member: 3647"] Hiya sweetie A cracked windshield? Seriously? What, did the luggage cart flip up a pebble? OK, seriously. I get how you are feeling. Everything feels like overload; like you are on the outside looking in. Like you are numb. It's normal. It takes time. It will not always be like this. Grief has 5 stages. Denial (I can't believe this really happened; you seem to be in it now), sadness (real, true pain; emotional and sometimes giving way to physical), anger (literally, "I can't believe she left me), bargaining (if only I had done this, maybe she'd have still been here) and acceptance (this is how it is, and I cannot change it). We all go need to go through all 5 stages in order to heal. Maybe not in that order. Some stages last more than others. It depends. I see my DEX as a very angry, vindictive person, and I know for a fact that he never dealt with the loss of his brother properly. His brother died 8 1/2 years ago, in an accident, at the age of 23, and DEX has not been the same since. Anyways, I use him as a comparison. I would hate for anyone to become like that. He has so much hurt in him, and it is because he is afraid of feeling. You know you have us to help you get through this. Love, hugs, and prayers. [/QUOTE]
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