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<blockquote data-quote="ckay87" data-source="post: 749237" data-attributes="member: 24067"><p>Your story really resonated because I see it coming to this eventually. And blame.... yep. That's tough to swallow and that's where I need to work very hard not to care. Because it's absolutely going to happen.</p><p></p><p>And this part is what baffles me. I nag him daily. I remind him of today's date every day (because when you don't work, it's hard to know the date <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/dissapointed2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dissapointed2:" title="dissapointed2 :dissapointed2:" data-shortname=":dissapointed2:" />) And he'll tell me that my "nagging" is "stressing him out." And I think....well YEAH. You SHOULD be stressed. I was without a job for a few months and I was so stressed I could hardly sleep. But last night he was up all night with friends and is sleeping as I leave for work. That doesn't seem like someone who is stressed, does it?</p><p></p><p></p><p>There is some play at the end of my lease where I'll move out, but the lease will run for another 2-3 weeks. That will help. If he's still there at that time, I will already be long gone and the police or something can get him out of there. Fingers crossed it won't come to that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ckay87, post: 749237, member: 24067"] Your story really resonated because I see it coming to this eventually. And blame.... yep. That's tough to swallow and that's where I need to work very hard not to care. Because it's absolutely going to happen. And this part is what baffles me. I nag him daily. I remind him of today's date every day (because when you don't work, it's hard to know the date :dissapointed2:) And he'll tell me that my "nagging" is "stressing him out." And I think....well YEAH. You SHOULD be stressed. I was without a job for a few months and I was so stressed I could hardly sleep. But last night he was up all night with friends and is sleeping as I leave for work. That doesn't seem like someone who is stressed, does it? There is some play at the end of my lease where I'll move out, but the lease will run for another 2-3 weeks. That will help. If he's still there at that time, I will already be long gone and the police or something can get him out of there. Fingers crossed it won't come to that. [/QUOTE]
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