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(I'm New) and I don't want to be around my child anymore
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<blockquote data-quote="Last ♡ Hope" data-source="post: 415852" data-attributes="member: 11452"><p>I wonder this all the time! I feel like we set up this false reality for him, so that we can have some semblance of peace now and then, but wth happens when he's an adult?? </p><p></p><p>I mean sooner or later you're gonna have to accept 'no' as an answer, not 'soft' no, not maybe, not keep pushing until your boss changes his mind because you're just going to get yourself fired. You don't always get to 'choose' what you want to do, and people aren't always going to 'pick their battles' with you or 'choose their words carefully' in the real world. </p><p></p><p>So then what? Is he gonna punch the waiter because they don't carry what he wants to eat? Chase someone with a tire iron because he didn't like something they said to him? Smash a vending machine AND a pay phone because each 'stole' his money? This is the way his (now completely absent) bio father slimes his way through life. If this is the future my difficult child has in store... I just don't even know... <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/badmood.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":badmood:" title="bad mood :badmood:" data-shortname=":badmood:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Last ♡ Hope, post: 415852, member: 11452"] I wonder this all the time! I feel like we set up this false reality for him, so that we can have some semblance of peace now and then, but wth happens when he's an adult?? I mean sooner or later you're gonna have to accept 'no' as an answer, not 'soft' no, not maybe, not keep pushing until your boss changes his mind because you're just going to get yourself fired. You don't always get to 'choose' what you want to do, and people aren't always going to 'pick their battles' with you or 'choose their words carefully' in the real world. So then what? Is he gonna punch the waiter because they don't carry what he wants to eat? Chase someone with a tire iron because he didn't like something they said to him? Smash a vending machine AND a pay phone because each 'stole' his money? This is the way his (now completely absent) bio father slimes his way through life. If this is the future my difficult child has in store... I just don't even know... :badmood: [/QUOTE]
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