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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 214021" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi everyone!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>I hope everyone's day was a calm uneventful one.</p><p> </p><p>So, easy child kinda flipped out on me this evening. The issue of upcoming "outting" with her boyfriend and his parents, the dad who is the raging alcoholic came up at dinner.</p><p> </p><p>So, I told her I am sorry but I cannot allow you to go, due to safety reasons. When you drive, and that will not be too long from now, you will have the ability to keep yourself safe (hopefully), and have control over when you leave a place and whom you drive with. Yet now with the knowledge you have graciously (yup i added that to try to smooth it over;didn't work) shared with me and i soo appreciate it I can't allow you to get into a car with his dad with whom drinks heavily. She than responded well it's fine i was already in a car with him one night, he was drunk!!! OMG and his mom took over driving. They must of picked them up one night and I wasn't aware of it obviously........yikes! I said so his dad was driving the car drunk. She said yes but his mom made him pull over and she drove he sat in the front drunk. GREAt for her to be around.</p><p> </p><p>So, long story short my decision that i was contemplating is made. No more outtings with his family unfortunately. She screamed, cried, yelled said i'm going end of discussion LOL, that was funny. All the while telling difficult child see what she'll do to you when you get older she'll ruin your life, and never share anything with her!</p><p> </p><p>So, difficult child than before this explosion errupted decided to jump up from dinner table to check garbage (yup she loves garbage) i proceeded to use my words and tell her to sit down. She did listen after going through it a bit, she checks to make sure i dont throw her toys away ?? She than jumped up again and said i Have to feed gracie NOW! I said no R we should call her, you need to listen and please sit adn finish eating. She than ran away from me and proceeded to drop the entire cat box of food all over the floor. I even warned you will lose snack tonight if you do not listen to my words. So, she's snackless, and hating me, easy child isn't even talking she s' hyterical in her room over the boyfriend outting issue.</p><p> </p><p>Me, I finished my dinner alone, got up and cleaned my plate <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> and than proceeded to light the candles in the kitchen and living room i needed some calm i am now locked in bathroom smoking a cig near window (only place i get peace) and talking to all of you.</p><p> </p><p>They say when they like you too much you aren't doing a good job, so well than tonight i'm Super Mom and doing a great job because they all hate me!! LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 214021, member: 4514"] hi everyone!!! :) I hope everyone's day was a calm uneventful one. So, easy child kinda flipped out on me this evening. The issue of upcoming "outting" with her boyfriend and his parents, the dad who is the raging alcoholic came up at dinner. So, I told her I am sorry but I cannot allow you to go, due to safety reasons. When you drive, and that will not be too long from now, you will have the ability to keep yourself safe (hopefully), and have control over when you leave a place and whom you drive with. Yet now with the knowledge you have graciously (yup i added that to try to smooth it over;didn't work) shared with me and i soo appreciate it I can't allow you to get into a car with his dad with whom drinks heavily. She than responded well it's fine i was already in a car with him one night, he was drunk!!! OMG and his mom took over driving. They must of picked them up one night and I wasn't aware of it obviously........yikes! I said so his dad was driving the car drunk. She said yes but his mom made him pull over and she drove he sat in the front drunk. GREAt for her to be around. So, long story short my decision that i was contemplating is made. No more outtings with his family unfortunately. She screamed, cried, yelled said i'm going end of discussion LOL, that was funny. All the while telling difficult child see what she'll do to you when you get older she'll ruin your life, and never share anything with her! So, difficult child than before this explosion errupted decided to jump up from dinner table to check garbage (yup she loves garbage) i proceeded to use my words and tell her to sit down. She did listen after going through it a bit, she checks to make sure i dont throw her toys away ?? She than jumped up again and said i Have to feed gracie NOW! I said no R we should call her, you need to listen and please sit adn finish eating. She than ran away from me and proceeded to drop the entire cat box of food all over the floor. I even warned you will lose snack tonight if you do not listen to my words. So, she's snackless, and hating me, easy child isn't even talking she s' hyterical in her room over the boyfriend outting issue. Me, I finished my dinner alone, got up and cleaned my plate :) and than proceeded to light the candles in the kitchen and living room i needed some calm i am now locked in bathroom smoking a cig near window (only place i get peace) and talking to all of you. They say when they like you too much you aren't doing a good job, so well than tonight i'm Super Mom and doing a great job because they all hate me!! LOL [/QUOTE]
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