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<blockquote data-quote="Woofens" data-source="post: 214440" data-attributes="member: 4425"><p>Bran,</p><p></p><p>Thanks <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Moonwolf and Moe are on their way over for the evening. They are usually here by 2 PM every weekday, but Moe's paycheck came today so they had stuff they had to do. They wanted me to go with Moe and leave Moonwolf here with the kids, but with difficult child acting the way he was today, I was afraid to try to leave him here with her and the girls. I had planned to take him with Moe and me but I wasn't about to take him out in public the way he was acting out today. </p><p></p><p>I have said before I can tell the difference in him when he is raging because of anxiety and when it it just flat out the ODD rearing its ugly head. Today was the ODD, no doubt about it. He was smirking at me the whole time he was raging. I really just wanted to smack him hard enough to knock it off his face. </p><p></p><p>I'm ready to strip his room, to take the ammunition away. The problem is, we have combined 3 households into 1 here (mine, SO's and SO's difficult child's stuff he left in another house when he moved away) so there really isn't anyplace to put everything out of difficult child's room. </p><p></p><p>As for friends or family taking them for a couple days... no one wants to take him <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> My sister might take the girls, but she has 5 kids of her own and her hubby is in the hospital. He has immune neuropathy with vasculitis and his white blood count is through the ceiling. My mom is no help at all, she is pi$$ed at me about difficult child D. I gave up on getting help from her a long time ago. Moe and Moonwolf are great (Moonwolf is my daughter by choice.... I've been her mom for a long time and Moe is her girlfriend/SO) but they are already here 5 days a week, and I can't ask them to do more. They are only 21 and 24. </p><p></p><p>I'm just going to really enjoy being out with SO tonight, and beg him to give the guy he just hired more hours so he can be home with us a couple nights a week.</p><p></p><p>Sigh.... </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Jan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woofens, post: 214440, member: 4425"] Bran, Thanks :) Moonwolf and Moe are on their way over for the evening. They are usually here by 2 PM every weekday, but Moe's paycheck came today so they had stuff they had to do. They wanted me to go with Moe and leave Moonwolf here with the kids, but with difficult child acting the way he was today, I was afraid to try to leave him here with her and the girls. I had planned to take him with Moe and me but I wasn't about to take him out in public the way he was acting out today. I have said before I can tell the difference in him when he is raging because of anxiety and when it it just flat out the ODD rearing its ugly head. Today was the ODD, no doubt about it. He was smirking at me the whole time he was raging. I really just wanted to smack him hard enough to knock it off his face. I'm ready to strip his room, to take the ammunition away. The problem is, we have combined 3 households into 1 here (mine, SO's and SO's difficult child's stuff he left in another house when he moved away) so there really isn't anyplace to put everything out of difficult child's room. As for friends or family taking them for a couple days... no one wants to take him :( My sister might take the girls, but she has 5 kids of her own and her hubby is in the hospital. He has immune neuropathy with vasculitis and his white blood count is through the ceiling. My mom is no help at all, she is pi$$ed at me about difficult child D. I gave up on getting help from her a long time ago. Moe and Moonwolf are great (Moonwolf is my daughter by choice.... I've been her mom for a long time and Moe is her girlfriend/SO) but they are already here 5 days a week, and I can't ask them to do more. They are only 21 and 24. I'm just going to really enjoy being out with SO tonight, and beg him to give the guy he just hired more hours so he can be home with us a couple nights a week. Sigh.... Hugs Jan [/QUOTE]
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