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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 678414" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>HI I just want to say this is not your fault!! I think we all go to places where we blame ourselves or think we should have done things differently.... But really who knows what would have happened if we took another path. It sounds like you did a good job parenting and trying to protect your son from bad influences when young.... Believe me if you hadn't done that, eh would have found those influences and maybe gotten into worse trouble younger.</p><p></p><p>So yes now it is time to step back and let him face the consequences for his behavior. Now he is an adult.... And I do think it is really important for you and hubby to work together to figure this out. You mentioned you have not been on the same page but I am not clear how you differ.... So talk to each other and understand where each other is coming from .... And dyes be honest. Don't cover up for your son at this point.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there and keep posting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 678414, member: 15801"] HI I just want to say this is not your fault!! I think we all go to places where we blame ourselves or think we should have done things differently.... But really who knows what would have happened if we took another path. It sounds like you did a good job parenting and trying to protect your son from bad influences when young.... Believe me if you hadn't done that, eh would have found those influences and maybe gotten into worse trouble younger. So yes now it is time to step back and let him face the consequences for his behavior. Now he is an adult.... And I do think it is really important for you and hubby to work together to figure this out. You mentioned you have not been on the same page but I am not clear how you differ.... So talk to each other and understand where each other is coming from .... And dyes be honest. Don't cover up for your son at this point. Hang in there and keep posting. [/QUOTE]
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