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<blockquote data-quote="Sooz" data-source="post: 683342" data-attributes="member: 20015"><p>So, I felt I should update you all. My son got a job!!!!! He got it all on his own. He is going on his 2nd week of going. </p><p>I have been going to therapy. It has helped me back off. I am working on me. I am making myself happy. Through therapy I have realized I focus to much on my children. I guess I just love them to much. I'm a control freak...go figure. Therapy made me realize that my life just revolved around them all the time. </p><p>I have not come to terms that everything is my fault. I don't believe anyone wants that from me. I will say things have changed a lot. For one the first time in a very long time I can say my son is productive and when asked get to share my pride. I do not think people realized how depressed my son was. Come to find out through therapy our children mimic us...if you are happy, productive and just doing something. They do the same thing. </p><p>Thank you for all your support when I was at my lowest and I needed advice from people that had no vested interest no way or the other of the outcome. There was a point all I talked about was my son in conversation and how bad of choices he was making.</p><p>I sincerely appreciate it. </p><p>Sooz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sooz, post: 683342, member: 20015"] So, I felt I should update you all. My son got a job!!!!! He got it all on his own. He is going on his 2nd week of going. I have been going to therapy. It has helped me back off. I am working on me. I am making myself happy. Through therapy I have realized I focus to much on my children. I guess I just love them to much. I'm a control freak...go figure. Therapy made me realize that my life just revolved around them all the time. I have not come to terms that everything is my fault. I don't believe anyone wants that from me. I will say things have changed a lot. For one the first time in a very long time I can say my son is productive and when asked get to share my pride. I do not think people realized how depressed my son was. Come to find out through therapy our children mimic us...if you are happy, productive and just doing something. They do the same thing. Thank you for all your support when I was at my lowest and I needed advice from people that had no vested interest no way or the other of the outcome. There was a point all I talked about was my son in conversation and how bad of choices he was making. I sincerely appreciate it. Sooz [/QUOTE]
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