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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 660088" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Amen to the above. Don't believe anything he says at this time. </p><p></p><p>Just like anything else you pay for, you should have a very good idea of what to expect in terms of his therapy. Group, individual, family etc. and what his treatment plan looks like. Since he is under 18 and you are paying, I think you have some rights here. Since this is therapy...privacy is important. But, you certainly should be able to know how often he is going to get therapy and the kinds of therapy he will receive, etc.</p><p></p><p>Why can't he come home? Well, his behaviors were inappropriate and causing destruction for himself and others. Everyone was unhappy. How was school working out? Legal problems? He was not able to succeed on his own. Efforts were made, but they didn't work. So, something else needed to be tried. You love him and want better for him. At least now, he is in a different environment, away from drugs and more and more therapy, which he needs, is forthcoming. He can pretend like all was fine, that he was just about to change for the better, but that would be a falsehood. If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 660088, member: 4152"] Amen to the above. Don't believe anything he says at this time. Just like anything else you pay for, you should have a very good idea of what to expect in terms of his therapy. Group, individual, family etc. and what his treatment plan looks like. Since he is under 18 and you are paying, I think you have some rights here. Since this is therapy...privacy is important. But, you certainly should be able to know how often he is going to get therapy and the kinds of therapy he will receive, etc. Why can't he come home? Well, his behaviors were inappropriate and causing destruction for himself and others. Everyone was unhappy. How was school working out? Legal problems? He was not able to succeed on his own. Efforts were made, but they didn't work. So, something else needed to be tried. You love him and want better for him. At least now, he is in a different environment, away from drugs and more and more therapy, which he needs, is forthcoming. He can pretend like all was fine, that he was just about to change for the better, but that would be a falsehood. If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got. [/QUOTE]
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