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<blockquote data-quote="Loony Smurf" data-source="post: 618374" data-attributes="member: 1695"><p>Sorry to hear someone doesn't agree with something you said. But there's an old saying: you can please some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but you can't please all the people all the time. Disagreements are going to happen. Sometimes people get offended through no fault of our own. You meant no offense or disrespect, it's on that person for choosing to take offense where none was intended. </p><p></p><p>Also to always keep in the back of your mind, our children aren't the only ones who have various issues. There are many an adult difficult child, even on here. Many of the issues kids from folks on here have a genetic factor. Also, sometimes we get so caught up in being attacked all of the time and so accustomed to the malice in our lives that we start seeing it where it doesn't really exist. It's entirely possible that this person just simply assumed it was meant that way simply because it was possible to twist it that way because that's what they are used to people treating her like.</p><p></p><p>There are many very unique and strong personalities on this board. For the most part they are helpful and supportive and understanding. You didnt intend any harm in what you said. I believe you have much to offer the community, each of our older most helpful members started here as a needy person looking for help and support. If you leave you take your insight and kindness and support with you and leave us with the non-helpful non-kind person. </p><p></p><p>I hope you can look objectively at the issue and find the confidence to realize you are a worthwhile member and people want you to stay. There will always be Someone who doesn't like you for one reason or another, we all have them. That doesn't mean you have to go away. </p><p></p><p>((hugs)) for your hurt feelings, support for your decision.</p><p></p><p>From someone who knows how it feels to want to leave when attacked. Stand up for yourself, you are worth it.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/thumbsup.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":thumbsup:" title="thumbsup :thumbsup:" data-shortname=":thumbsup:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Loony Smurf, post: 618374, member: 1695"] Sorry to hear someone doesn't agree with something you said. But there's an old saying: you can please some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but you can't please all the people all the time. Disagreements are going to happen. Sometimes people get offended through no fault of our own. You meant no offense or disrespect, it's on that person for choosing to take offense where none was intended. Also to always keep in the back of your mind, our children aren't the only ones who have various issues. There are many an adult difficult child, even on here. Many of the issues kids from folks on here have a genetic factor. Also, sometimes we get so caught up in being attacked all of the time and so accustomed to the malice in our lives that we start seeing it where it doesn't really exist. It's entirely possible that this person just simply assumed it was meant that way simply because it was possible to twist it that way because that's what they are used to people treating her like. There are many very unique and strong personalities on this board. For the most part they are helpful and supportive and understanding. You didnt intend any harm in what you said. I believe you have much to offer the community, each of our older most helpful members started here as a needy person looking for help and support. If you leave you take your insight and kindness and support with you and leave us with the non-helpful non-kind person. I hope you can look objectively at the issue and find the confidence to realize you are a worthwhile member and people want you to stay. There will always be Someone who doesn't like you for one reason or another, we all have them. That doesn't mean you have to go away. ((hugs)) for your hurt feelings, support for your decision. From someone who knows how it feels to want to leave when attacked. Stand up for yourself, you are worth it.:thumbsup: [/QUOTE]
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